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Elizabeth
Elizabeth
Мама дочки (8 лет)

Anyone else get this?.. at my job customers or even friends in person say gosh you're huge, I wasn't that big till I was…

Anyone else get this?.. at my job customers or even friends in person say gosh you're huge, I wasn't that big till I was about 8-9 months, I'm 6 months. Or they say are you sure it isn't twins!? Like duh. They've given me an ultrasound there's only one baby in there. This is my 2nd pregnancy so I know you show more being pregnant multiple times but jeez, it's kinda making me mad lol! Like am I only suppose to be as big as someone else when they were at 6 months?! Every body is different and everyone shows differently. Most people say "I'm not trying to be rude" but it definitely comes off as rude. Like one customer is due around the time as I am and she has 3 kids and is barley showing and every time she's always got some sort of rude comment about how much I'm showing. It doesn't bother me looking pregnant, I love it. I'm just tired of the comments about it. rant over. 🙄😂😂

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brownsugarluv

A JМама четверых детей, беременна

Some people are low key haters. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Can't help stupid.

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elizabeth_smith0326

Elizabeth Мама дочки (8 лет)

Yess! I hate how people assume your due so soon when you've got longer to go. And I agree I think they should only say like, you look great or something like that. It's already a "stressful" time with your body changing so quickly and feeling huge, that's the last time we want is for someone to tell us how big we look.

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lydia09876

Lydia SmithМама четверых детей, беременна

They tell me me I'm too skinny bitch shut up at least I'm not freaking fat ! I hate when they judge people I bet they wasn't perfect

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sherilynne23

SheRiLynNe Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего

I get those comments from both sides. In the same day I went to the store and a lady was like wow you must be having twins! And I was like nope there's only one in there. And then later that day I had someone else tell me wow you don't look big enough to be that far along smdh. I'm like which one is it? Am I too big or too small? I think it all just depends on the person and their perspective but honestly I think everyone shouldn't be focused on the size of someone's pregnancy. If people insist on commenting then their only words should be wow you look great! And nothing else. We already know how big we look and feel. We already know how tired we look and are. We don't need an outsiders help. A little encouragement would be nice is all I'm saying.

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princessrose

CourtneyВ ожидании первенца

I do allllllll the time. I'm glad to be obviously pregnant but people think I'm due next week or something 🙄🙄🙄

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elizabeth_smith0326

Elizabeth Мама дочки (8 лет)

It's so annoying! I'm literally all baby too and some people don't get that it seems. Im glad I'm not the only one that gets these type of comments.

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batsymommy

dulceМама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет)

Lol I get that at work a lot is annoying now

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ecahanes

EmilyМама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)

I had that. Not my fault I am literally all baby. Made me so mad

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