So my cousin is planning my baby shower in September and I'm debating if I want to invite certain family members because…

@logan.sarah.walters, that's exactly how I feel

For sure! I'm not a person that beats around the bush! Don't sugarcoat sh*t, tell me the truth bc I don't have time for lies and I don't have energy for liars!

@logan.sarah.walters, see I'm not the type to cater to a grown adult. I have my own issues in life in dealing with and I refuse to stop my life because you deem your life more important

@mitiacarolina3, hey! You just described my father in law! He no long gets an invited to family events bc he is so self involved. He's 50+ and living back home with his elderly mom and she caters to his needs.

@logan.sarah.walters, my husbands mother only wants to be apart of events only if she's the main topic... she changes every conversation to about how she feels or what she wants and if you don't want to talk about her she ignores you

@mitiacarolina3, I've been there too. My mother in law was one of them...

@mitiacarolina3, ohh I understand

@logan.sarah.walters, my husband is planning on kicking out anyone who stresses me out and now it's to the point where he doesn't even want to invite his side of the family

You need a bouncer friend that will stop the drama and kick whoever out of the party. I did it, and I had no issues, she was also my maid of honor at my wedding and charged with the same duty.

When it's her events I take on that responsibility.

@mitiacarolina3 do you girl!! Do you.💖💖💖

@tabby.clark, because some of my family is loud and rude and act out simply for attention and I refuse to be stressed out on a day meant for celebration

I'm not inviting certain people cuz of their behavior as well. Not at my baby shower! I've already offended a bunch of people, but oh well. My day, my memories.

Why would you be embarrassed?