@sk216 Yeah I Know And i understand they have their own families and life but we see his nina every week and shes only held him 3 times and my son is already 2 months old and his nino works out of town and he was here last week so we brought the baby to meet him and he held him for 5 min and that was it and i told him to let us know when hes leaving or at my parents so i can bring the baby and he never did. To be honest i didn't want the godparents we choose but i got tired of fighting with my bf about it

As long you don't have it in writing you can change them.

Its really tough to choose someone you know will stick around. Maybe have a talk with them and tell them how your feeling.

@sk216 we choose my brother in law and my boyfriends sister in law because they were great with our daughter but with my son its like they don't even care or anything

No, its definitely your choice. You do what you feel is best. My daughter doesnt even have godparents yet because i dont have anyone i trust to be it for her.