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So I promise I'm not transphobic and this might get some hate but I'm not meaning to be rude, I just don't understand.…

So I promise I'm not transphobic and this might get some hate but I'm not meaning to be rude, I just don't understand. but there was this post on this period/pregnancy/baby app I've been using for 2 years now. So the majority of the people on there are women who use female pronouns. Now there is this little group that is trying to change the pronouns on articles, profiles, etc. to make it more inclusive for transpeople. This app has been amazing and I'm afraid it's going to be completely changed to be inclusive when I don't believe it has to be. So I suggested making an app targeted toward trans or the lgbtq+ community but then I was told that is segregation. But there are apps targeted towards men and women so why not have an app where the community can come together versus changing this particular app.

EDIT: This is not the mom life app. It is a different app.

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eviedoll

♡ Evie ♡

Мама сына (3 года)

It’s ridiculous. The Lgbt community should have their own app.. it’s not segregation at all & sorry but last time I checked a trans person does not get a period or become pregnant so I don’t understand the need in including them in the first place..& that’s not me being insensitive or hateful it’s just biology..

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eviedoll

♡ Evie ♡

Мама сына (3 года)

It’s ridiculous. The Lgbt community should have their own app.. it’s not segregation at all & sorry but last time I checked a trans person does not get a period or become pregnant so I don’t understand the need in including them in the first place..& that’s not me being insensitive or hateful it’s just biology..

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

Мама сына-младенца

@eviedoll, that's what I said and all they kept saying was "not all people who get periods are women because sex doesn't equal gender". Then I was called a "misogynistic, racist, transphobic bigot" was the exact words

eviedoll

♡ Evie ♡

Мама сына (3 года)

@mpeterson1517, that’s completely ridiculous & unfortunately a lot of people these days using those words clearly don’t even know the definition because you are none of those things from simply stating a fact. Sounds like a bunch of liberal millennials who picked up some new words & wants to throw them around at everyone who has a difference of opinion. End of the day they don’t have a uterus, they don’t get a period & they don’t carry babies which means theirs no reason for them to be on these apps in the first place.. and I’m not saying they can’t be considered a woman if that’s what they choose or that you have to have a uterus to be a woman I’m just saying they have no reason to even want to be using these apps lol. I’m come on really? What would they use them for? Things have gotten so blown out of proportion. 🙄

goodbyelullaby

R.

You either born a man or a woman. That's the way I see it. You don't get to change your gender later in life. I find it ridiculous that people are doing that

eviedoll

♡ Evie ♡

Мама сына (3 года)

I mean come on really?**

eviedoll

♡ Evie ♡

Мама сына (3 года)

@goodbyelullaby, I think there are people out there & were really born in the wrong body & I support those people wanting to make the change & live the life of the gender they feel they are but not all these idiots joining a fad & just making up new genders & what not. Soooo ridiculous.

eviedoll

♡ Evie ♡

Мама сына (3 года)

Oops who were*

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FlowerChild🌼

Мама сына-младенца

@eviedoll, girl your right on! And their fave thing to say is "well it's women who don't get periods or can't have babies"

It doesn't matter !

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

Мама сына-младенца

@eviedoll, @goodbyelullaby, I mean it's a free country so they can do what they want as long as it doesn't affect me. Now the app I've used for 2 years is going to turn into some lgbtq+ community app and it just bothers me. They told me it doesn't involve me because I'm not lgbtq+ but it's the app I used to track my period/ my pregnancy and my child's progress. It affects me when one of my favorite apps is going to be completely changed plus I'm getting attacked.

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

Мама сына-младенца

@eviedoll, I know. Like they want aromantic on the app. What even is that??

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

@mpeterson1517, people who have no romantic feelings towards people. They like having friendships. Not sure why that would be a good addition to that particular app but LGBT has dating apps and what not so idk what's the difference

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

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@amouryaya09, idk they say those apps are dangerous to their mental health. Which is fine but someone should make a good quality community app for that community since they have them for men and women.

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

@mpeterson1517, dangerous to mental health how tho? I'm so curious now 😫

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

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@amouryaya09, because trans people suffer from dysphoria. Meaning it triggers them to not be called the right pronouns, be addressed as the right gender, etc. Gender Dysphoria is what it is called.

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

Мама сына-младенца

@amouryaya09, but my point is, if it triggers you. Don't use the app.

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

@mpeterson1517, I think that will make shit worse. Not a lot of women understand transgender issues and it would just turn into a shit show. Being a part of a group that understands the sensitivity would be better 😔

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

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@amouryaya09, that's what I was saying. But they said it was segregation.

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

@mpeterson1517, it's definitely not. I've never heard of gender segregation. I have my own views on that subject but goodness that's too much

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

Мама сына-младенца

@amouryaya09, which I didn't understand. Men and women don't get butt hurt and call it segregation when we have different apps targeted towards each gender so why would trans people feel that way?

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

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@amouryaya09, I would rather be surrounded by people that understand what I'm going through versus being on an app with the majority of people being women who identify as women

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

@mpeterson1517, they're just sensitive and don't want to be singled out or be made to seem different. But they have dating apps for LGBT so idk girl. This is too much

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

@mpeterson1517, and don't understand your lifestyle. You would have to explain things because most women depending on where your from don't know anything about it.

goodbyelullaby

R.

@mpeterson1517 this app was better when it was preggie😢

mom.life_usa

Moms of the US, unite!

Мама дочки (1 год)

We do have a LGBTQ group. @kala_elise runs it. Message her if you're interested in it

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

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@goodbyelullaby, I should of specified that it's not this app. It's a different app.

mpeterson1517

Mackenzie

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@mcrowell0970, I have some people who are trans and gay in my family. And I will referred to them the way they want to be. I'm far from transphobic. And I don't care if they add the different pronouns to the profiles, but I know that isn't the end of it. They will have to tweak everything in the entire app to be inclusive including articles, profiles, etc. I just feel as though they should have a safe app for them to come together as a community because the people I talked to expressed that the apps that are for transpeople are basically "sex apps or dating apps". And I'm not saying they can't use the app I'm referring to now. I just think someone should create a safe place for them to be able to talk, exchange stories, and talk with more people who know what they go through.

This app has changed a lot in 6 months. When I was pregnant there was really helpful people on here. They don't judge…

This app has changed a lot in 6 months. When I was pregnant there was really helpful people on here. They don't judge you and they don't mind to hear your opinion. Now that I'm back on her after I had my baby. All I see is a bunch of rude people and a lot of judging. That's why I don't come on here often. I thought this app was to help women out and for us women to stick together and lift each other spirit. Keep each other stress free. That's what this app is lacking now...... What happened?