Lexi Shai
lexithemommy
Lexi Shai·Мама дочки-младенца

Sorry I just need to vent for a minute because I am so mad

I am currently working an 13 hour shift and my husband texts me complaining how hard it is to be a stay at home dad and how it's really hard and how he is sick of it and I need to stop working so much,

I work because I have to pay bills. I wish I could be a stay at home mom. I miss my baby more than anything. He is complaining because he is tired, when I am the one who wakes up with the baby every night, and I pump every 2 hours throughout the night and still get up at 5am everyday to get to work. When I go home I don't even get to change out of my clothes yet because I go and start taking care of the baby, and on my days off I don't ask for help with the baby. (I work 3 days a week and have 4 days off)

Sad thing too is I know when I am at work she just cries (separation anxiety) and he just lets her and doesn't try to comfort her.

I seriously hate this

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deafmama16
Keora Willis·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (35 нед.)

He needs to be in a daddy group

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ekko I see both sides. However, if you both work and him taking off one day isn’t going
2sweetie I’ve never asked my husband to take a day off when I’m sick. I just deal with
boymama523 He gets the choice to call off if he’s overwhelmed or sick. You (all us mommas) don’t.
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Why am I happier when my husband leaves for work but not when he’s home🤷🏽‍♀️can’t wait for 6:30 so he can leave

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melek.eldar My husband was also so messy, like very very messy , because he was tbe last child
melek.eldar @mitiacarolina3 I mean try, don't get tired. This is your family, struggle, don't give it up so
mitiacarolina3 @melek.eldar, my husband actually knows how to clean and cook and wash clothes ... he just tells
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