So because I got a cervical check done by a man my S/O says I'm "tampered" with and that's like…

Wtf 🤔

@ranea1991 ikr !!!!! He acts like he doesn't wanna touch me now because I'm "tampered" so he says. He said that's like letting a girl Jack him off. Lmao hes dumb. How does ur man act about that subject?

But if it was a girl I wouldn't be tampered with. He said when I have my son if any guy docs walk In he's gonna Tell them yo get the fuck out

@teniera smhhhhhh

Tell his dumb ass to have a seat

Girl I'm from the middle East (iraq) I've been in the US since I was 5 years old, and I've seen a lot of shit and men in are Culture don't allow that, you can't even shack hand with anyone , but their stupid because it's not again are religion for a male doctor to touch you, but there are a lot of fuckin Idiots out there, and my husband has only been in the US for 8 years and he is a very open minded person he's been to so many appointments with me and the doctor check me. Girl I thank God everyday for my man 🙏❤😍

@miriahlove he can't tell them shit because they have a medical degree and they know what they are doing half the time like every doctors plus when it comes to delivery it's always a make doctor that's going to be on call depending on availability. So his ass need to read a book and take a seat in the waiting room if he don't like it.

If it bothers your husband you can request all female doctors. I had all female nurses and midwives until they had to bring in the emergency c-section doctor (who i didnt need) but he was a male. My husband was bothered by it so i tried my best to respect his wishes. However i dont agree that you are "tampered with" since it was for a medical reason to check on your baby. Not for sexual pleaure. Cervical checks are not usually pleasurable.

@kmharr3 there were only 2, on call ob I was in hospital last night. I usually like woman too

@deafmama16 true there was only 2male docs on call and just nurses it was late and I was in L&d last night

i hope he can come around and understand that it wasnt really by choice.

@milky_mama2017 lmaooo ikr hes doing way took much for me. Like I'm a grown woman , it's apart of life

@kmharr3 ikr he said I should have went to another er after I had been there 3+ hours just for a woman

Thats ridiculous

@ranea1991 woww! Thats sad but good for u . u picked the right man ;)

He sounds immature, i wouldn't even tell him anything

@milky_mama2017 girrrl never again . I regret it so much now. Hes super immature.

Im here if you need to ever talk 😊

@milky_mama2017 thanks girrrl I always do :/

No problem

What the HELL!!!!!!

@avie lmao thought y'all all would say that

I'm sorry but that's insane. How can he compare a cervix check to being jacked off. I wish I got off during my cervix being checked. It's painful, does he not understand that it's not a pleasurable experience. It's a medical freaking procedure that can be extremely uncomfortable if your OB is rough.

@avie lol he just looks st it as fingers going in my vagina. Dumb ass insecure guy.

@miriahlove, lol MEN. That makes my blood boil. How can he think that. You should tell him that one of the moms on the app says to imagine a metal rod being stuck up his penis by that woman. Not to be gently jerked off 😒😒😒😡

@avie lmao I will. He treats me like a dog to honest. A.d u know when a guy knows he ain't treating u right he trys to be too protective! Be don't even Let me wear leggings or shorts

I'm seriously over his little ass. : / he doesn't support me at all not even work smhhhh

Sorry for my poor grammar. Lol I was typing so fast because I've never seen something like this before. I hope he gets it one day. Did he watch you get it checked? Maybe if he comes to an appointment he'Ll understand. I dragged my hubby along to all of mine so he could watch me be poked and prodded lol. Watching me, I think he felt the pain just as much 😂

@miriahlove, He won't "let" you wear those clothes? That doesn't sound ok. If you do wear them what will happen?

@avie he has before with female docs but he wasnt there I should have kept my mouth closed smh! He doesn't even come to appointments with me. Every 2weeks I ask him to come and hes like what's it for?? Or there's no point smh hes dumb as hell

@avie he won't let me leave put like that and Start saying he ain't bout to let his girl look like a hoe in those close

He calls it caring. Abd everywhere we go guys always approach me even while pregnant. He knows I'm pretty as hell and can do better so I think thats y hes like that. Hes honestly controlling and really mean

I don't even wear makeup cuz he doesn't like it. I don't think I need it but Its the principal yuh know

Omg I can't believe what I'm reading! I can't even make sense of this!

@miriahlove guys come up to women when they know they are not happy with their relationship the other half are just dogs. My husband always told me that because he a guy so he knows. Leggings and short even makeup don't make a woman a ho. It how she define herself to be one. He is very controlling and that ain't healthy

🤔 how in the hell, was he your first?

He sounds like he's on the verge of physical abuse, I would leave him as soon as I could...

@babyboy1117, agreed. These may not be signs of physical abuse but it sure is mental & emotional abuse which is not okay mama.

Really? That's so stupid! My OB is a man and my boyfriend sat there and watched him to a pelvic exam and just laughed when my doc left the room and said well damn he touches you better than me babe 😂😂😂 your bf should get over it. I mean damn. It's for your baby it's not like you fucked him and begged him to please touch you you want it so bad 😤

@beebaby nope and he knows he wasn't my first. Lmao I been "tampered" before him and so was he

@avie I know :/

@courtneyraelochamy lol I wish be was that cool

Smh. That is the most ignorant thing

@miriahlove, trust me I was surprised normally he is the jealous type. But he knows it's just a doctor 😂

@courtneyraelochamy yea I keep telling him its just a doc and he says no its just a man and he thinks like a man

@miriahlove, 😐 no offense but he is just being a lil Bitch

@courtneyraelochamy no offending me. Its true :/ I always question myself for ever seeing something in him to have a baby with him , I do love my son so much tho so its good coming out of it

@miriahlove, I understand girl

@miriahlove 😁😁 yes I did 🤗