So because I got a cervical check done by a man my S/O says I'm "tampered" with and that's like cheating . wtf

@miriahlove guys come up to women when they know they are not happy with their relationship the other half are just dogs. My husband always told me that because he a guy so he knows. Leggings and short even makeup don't make a woman a ho. It how she define herself to be one. He is very controlling and that ain't healthy

@miriahlove, lol MEN. That makes my blood boil. How can he think that. You should tell him that one of the moms on the app says to imagine a metal rod being stuck up his penis by that woman. Not to be gently jerked off 😒😒😒😡

@miriahlove 😁😁 yes I did 🤗

@miriahlove, I understand girl

@courtneyraelochamy no offending me. Its true :/ I always question myself for ever seeing something in him to have a baby with him , I do love my son so much tho so its good coming out of it

@miriahlove, 😐 no offense but he is just being a lil Bitch

@courtneyraelochamy yea I keep telling him its just a doc and he says no its just a man and he thinks like a man

@miriahlove, trust me I was surprised normally he is the jealous type. But he knows it's just a doctor 😂

Smh. That is the most ignorant thing

@courtneyraelochamy lol I wish be was that cool

@avie I know :/

@beebaby nope and he knows he wasn't my first. Lmao I been "tampered" before him and so was he

Really? That's so stupid! My OB is a man and my boyfriend sat there and watched him to a pelvic exam and just laughed when my doc left the room and said well damn he touches you better than me babe 😂😂😂 your bf should get over it. I mean damn. It's for your baby it's not like you fucked him and begged him to please touch you you want it so bad 😤

@babyboy1117, agreed. These may not be signs of physical abuse but it sure is mental & emotional abuse which is not okay mama.

He sounds like he's on the verge of physical abuse, I would leave him as soon as I could...

🤔 how in the hell, was he your first?

@miriahlove guys come up to women when they know they are not happy with their relationship the other half are just dogs. My husband always told me that because he a guy so he knows. Leggings and short even makeup don't make a woman a ho. It how she define herself to be one. He is very controlling and that ain't healthy

Omg I can't believe what I'm reading! I can't even make sense of this!

I don't even wear makeup cuz he doesn't like it. I don't think I need it but Its the principal yuh know

He calls it caring. Abd everywhere we go guys always approach me even while pregnant. He knows I'm pretty as hell and can do better so I think thats y hes like that. Hes honestly controlling and really mean

@avie he won't let me leave put like that and Start saying he ain't bout to let his girl look like a hoe in those close

@avie he has before with female docs but he wasnt there I should have kept my mouth closed smh! He doesn't even come to appointments with me. Every 2weeks I ask him to come and hes like what's it for?? Or there's no point smh hes dumb as hell

@miriahlove, He won't "let" you wear those clothes? That doesn't sound ok. If you do wear them what will happen?

Sorry for my poor grammar. Lol I was typing so fast because I've never seen something like this before. I hope he gets it one day. Did he watch you get it checked? Maybe if he comes to an appointment he'Ll understand. I dragged my hubby along to all of mine so he could watch me be poked and prodded lol. Watching me, I think he felt the pain just as much 😂

I'm seriously over his little ass. : / he doesn't support me at all not even work smhhhh

@avie lmao I will. He treats me like a dog to honest. A.d u know when a guy knows he ain't treating u right he trys to be too protective! Be don't even Let me wear leggings or shorts

@miriahlove, lol MEN. That makes my blood boil. How can he think that. You should tell him that one of the moms on the app says to imagine a metal rod being stuck up his penis by that woman. Not to be gently jerked off 😒😒😒😡

@avie lol he just looks st it as fingers going in my vagina. Dumb ass insecure guy.

I'm sorry but that's insane. How can he compare a cervix check to being jacked off. I wish I got off during my cervix being checked. It's painful, does he not understand that it's not a pleasurable experience. It's a medical freaking procedure that can be extremely uncomfortable if your OB is rough.

@avie lmao thought y'all all would say that

What the HELL!!!!!!

No problem

@milky_mama2017 thanks girrrl I always do :/

Im here if you need to ever talk 😊

@milky_mama2017 girrrl never again . I regret it so much now. Hes super immature.

He sounds immature, i wouldn't even tell him anything

@ranea1991 woww! Thats sad but good for u . u picked the right man ;)

Thats ridiculous

@kmharr3 ikr he said I should have went to another er after I had been there 3+ hours just for a woman

@milky_mama2017 lmaooo ikr hes doing way took much for me. Like I'm a grown woman , it's apart of life

i hope he can come around and understand that it wasnt really by choice.

@deafmama16 true there was only 2male docs on call and just nurses it was late and I was in L&d last night

@kmharr3 there were only 2, on call ob I was in hospital last night. I usually like woman too

If it bothers your husband you can request all female doctors. I had all female nurses and midwives until they had to bring in the emergency c-section doctor (who i didnt need) but he was a male. My husband was bothered by it so i tried my best to respect his wishes. However i dont agree that you are "tampered with" since it was for a medical reason to check on your baby. Not for sexual pleaure. Cervical checks are not usually pleasurable.

@miriahlove he can't tell them shit because they have a medical degree and they know what they are doing half the time like every doctors plus when it comes to delivery it's always a make doctor that's going to be on call depending on availability. So his ass need to read a book and take a seat in the waiting room if he don't like it.

Girl I'm from the middle East (iraq) I've been in the US since I was 5 years old, and I've seen a lot of shit and men in are Culture don't allow that, you can't even shack hand with anyone , but their stupid because it's not again are religion for a male doctor to touch you, but there are a lot of fuckin Idiots out there, and my husband has only been in the US for 8 years and he is a very open minded person he's been to so many appointments with me and the doctor check me. Girl I thank God everyday for my man 🙏❤😍

Tell his dumb ass to have a seat

@teniera smhhhhhh

But if it was a girl I wouldn't be tampered with. He said when I have my son if any guy docs walk In he's gonna Tell them yo get the fuck out

@ranea1991 ikr !!!!! He acts like he doesn't wanna touch me now because I'm "tampered" so he says. He said that's like letting a girl Jack him off. Lmao hes dumb. How does ur man act about that subject?

Wtf 🤔