Do you ever have dreams about holding your little one, seeing em smile and just loving in them but then you wake up?
They're happening more and more and I'm loving them but it's also making me feel really upset because I have so much I need to get him still and I'm not prepared at all but I just can't wait to hold him in my arms😭 makes me more excited to meet him but it also just makes me beyond upset..
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@vikkimylove also if you are worried about money and stuff, you can get a lot of good things, and even new things from second hand places, Goodwill, once upon a child, and even garage sales! That's where I started getting clothes for my son was good will. The things we bought out of pocket were the crib, and the stroller. I had a baby shower but I didnt get anything big, just clothes and diapers. I'm here if you need to talk! ^.^
@shayla.galloway, a lot of things to be honest but I'm trying to be patient since I'm not due until Nov. 7th but it's just hard and nerve racking, a friend of mine didn't get anything for her kiddo until last minute and I don't want to be that way because of money and all the big things we have going on right now. Thankfully I have one pack of sheets and a blanket plus tone bottle and my stroller/car seat combo and some clothes which I'm not worried about clothes at all.
@vikkimylove I only had 4 people show up. My family and one friend. I got a few out fits towels books daipers. Wipes. Some shampoo. What all do you need still. Bedding isn't a necessity. I'd get a few sheets a mattress. But to be honest I don't think many babies like sleeping in there crib at first. I had a Rock n play and that's all she liked sleeping in for 6 months.
@shayla.galloway, honestly I'm so nervous about my baby shower since all my family (excluding my parents who are getting my crib and dresser) lives in California and I live in KS now, and a very close friend of mine just had her baby shower and I was the only one who showed up, broke my heart.. we have the exact same friends too and they all cancelled the day of her shower.. I know I can count on at least 3 people to show up but I'm so damn nervous, I'm not even doing games just food for that reason. I also have high anxiety which I know is a contributing factor for being as nervous as I am..
Awh don't be upset, you're still early too. You have plenty of time to get ready before your baby comes. Heck I didn't even have a stroller until after my baby was born. I dreamt a lot of having my baby boy really early on, and imagining what he'd look like :) you are a great mommy don't feel bad
I didn't have much til my baby shower then it was way easier to get everything else.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to hold the baby if it's not me or my husband? If they touch them I have them to sanitize their hands I do it to my kids also??
I've been seeing so many negative posts/comments (not on this app as much but on a lot of others) and I just felt the need to put something positive out there. I'm a graphic designer and some of you may have seen this graphic before that I made with my baby girls first and middle name. I got a decent amount of good feedback from it so I figured I'd share my talent and make some for you guys! So if you'd like me to make one for you just comment with your baby's first and middle name and gender an...
@bluepenguin, Thank you! I'm hoping that there's more garage sales in my area soon!