@bluepenguin, Thank you! I'm hoping that there's more garage sales in my area soon!

@vikkimylove also if you are worried about money and stuff, you can get a lot of good things, and even new things from second hand places, Goodwill, once upon a child, and even garage sales! That's where I started getting clothes for my son was good will. The things we bought out of pocket were the crib, and the stroller. I had a baby shower but I didnt get anything big, just clothes and diapers. I'm here if you need to talk! ^.^

@shayla.galloway, a lot of things to be honest but I'm trying to be patient since I'm not due until Nov. 7th but it's just hard and nerve racking, a friend of mine didn't get anything for her kiddo until last minute and I don't want to be that way because of money and all the big things we have going on right now. Thankfully I have one pack of sheets and a blanket plus tone bottle and my stroller/car seat combo and some clothes which I'm not worried about clothes at all.

@vikkimylove I only had 4 people show up. My family and one friend. I got a few out fits towels books daipers. Wipes. Some shampoo. What all do you need still. Bedding isn't a necessity. I'd get a few sheets a mattress. But to be honest I don't think many babies like sleeping in there crib at first. I had a Rock n play and that's all she liked sleeping in for 6 months.

Thank you so much @bluepenguin,

@shayla.galloway, honestly I'm so nervous about my baby shower since all my family (excluding my parents who are getting my crib and dresser) lives in California and I live in KS now, and a very close friend of mine just had her baby shower and I was the only one who showed up, broke my heart.. we have the exact same friends too and they all cancelled the day of her shower.. I know I can count on at least 3 people to show up but I'm so damn nervous, I'm not even doing games just food for that reason. I also have high anxiety which I know is a contributing factor for being as nervous as I am..

Awh don't be upset, you're still early too. You have plenty of time to get ready before your baby comes. Heck I didn't even have a stroller until after my baby was born. I dreamt a lot of having my baby boy really early on, and imagining what he'd look like :) you are a great mommy don't feel bad

I didn't have much til my baby shower then it was way easier to get everything else.