Has anyone's spouse ever cheated on you before and your still with him? How do you do it?

@kambam right true love will keep you together even making mistake as long it don't happen again. Talk it out and get all the feelings out instead of holding it in. Give it time to heal and for him to earn your trust again. @family_first01

My husband has made that mistake more than once. We finally get to the point where I told him that he wouldn't get another chance. We are doing marriage counseling and he is getting help individually. I see a difference now and we are building trust again. It's hard but we are fighting to get what we used to have back. I think any couple can do that if they really love each other and want to fix things

Girl! My sons dad cheated on me and got the bitch pregnant and dated her while dating me. For YEARS @family_first01 i found out when my son was 1 month old.

You have to accept that its happened and youre still with each other for a reason. But mostly he needs to make it right with you again. Build trust. No longer talk to that person and never be brought up again. If he doesn't want to be loyal to you he should be upfront and be given the freedom to have that option. Im sorry this happened to you 😞 sometimes people mess up, doesn't mean they love you any less.