My stbx is in the hospital... Im not a perfect christian, but imo when you speak the word, but you dont practice what you preach or even try... karma eventually does come around. I hate that i love this man and i do want him to see the errors of his ways, but i wish i was the one by his side going thru all this instead of her. As everything else this is out of my hands... He apparently had an infection that spread, hasnt worked for weeks and will have to continue to heal for the next few weeks... I wonder how their relationship will withstand being that broke.