Update on yesterday's post about not wanting anyone there when she's born.. My bf was fine with it until I told his sister I didn't want anyone there and she got mad and told me it was fucked up and this and that, now he's saying they want to be there so they can be and I can't stop them.. I'm so frustrated..
It's your body, he needs to support your decision for privacy regardless of what his family "wants"
Girl just tell the nurses who is or isn't allowed in. They'll take care of it from there.
@pilgreenheather you can tell the nurses that you don't want any visitors in your room and I'll make sure that nobody goes in there but you and your boyfriend they'll tell him that you aren't you're not there or something like that or that you have requested that nobody comes into your room
Going through the same thing, tell your nurses you don't want anyone in the room besides dad and they'll make it happen. They can be in the hospital, by all means, but not in the delivery room and they should respect your decisions.
Fuk them its ur life not theirs do what make you comfortable and happy yo whole vagina gonna be out
@pilgreenheather well the hostpital will care. Your their patient, just because hes the dad does not mean that he gets a say of who visits thats strictly up to the patiens. Could even keep him out! Anyone! Its 100% up.to you. Dont let him make you feel like that. He doesnt have the control hun you do.
And no im not saying keep the dad out, im just saying you have the control to do anyhing.
@laciemarie, apparently the other day he just agreed "so I would shut up" because "he didn't wanna hear me whine over nothing".. I'm so aggravated..
@laciemarie, he said that he doesn't care what I say that family will be there..
Omg I'm the same I don't want but one or two people in the room while I deliver