
I've never really posted about him before. This is the boy I loved first. My first born. My son.
I wasn't ready to have a child. I was 19, in college full time (sometimes having classes from 1am-5am, or 5am-9am), no money, my then-boyfriend was addicted to coke, and I didn't know what to do. I *personally* could have never chosen abortion, so I did then next best thing which was adoption.
Our adoption is so open. We visit twice a year, call/FaceTime/text constantly and I can send him gifts whenever I want to. Adoption was the biggest blessing in my life. It completely saved me. Even though it's hard sometimes, and I miss him so much it hurts. I know he's where he's supposed to be. Being loved by soooo many ❤️
@justusthree you have an amazing story. You did something very hard for you but blessed others with your decision.
Same but when the time comes I'd do almost anything to get my child @rikki.ferguson
@kambam I've thought about wanting to adopt one day as well but people always talk about how difficult the process is and what not.
Wanna adopt so bad someday. Perhaps you'll talk more about your process in the future and what its like to go through.
@kambam, thank you so much! And me too! It breaks my heart when you hear the not-so-successful ones 💔 since I've placed, I've learned soooo much about adoption and I've heard from all three sides of the triad. Some of the stories are absolutely heartbreaking and I feel awful for them. So thankful there are happy adoption stories
He's so blessed and you're so lucky he found that love! I love adoption success stories 🙏
@vanessagarcia, thanks girl!! It was the hardest thing I've ever done, but definitely the best thing I've ever done ❤️ it's hard to break your own heart, but it makes it a little easier knowing you're doing the right thing.
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
So this has nothing to do with my pregnancy but it's a thought I've been having lately: when I first met my husband I told him I was bisexual but willing to date him as long as my past was never bought up in our relationship.... been married for 4 years now and lately I've been missing a female touch... I don't love him any less in fact I love him more each day but sometimes I miss that intimacy
I don't think she gets it.
I swear sometimes I just need to renew my policy to not look at the comments in Facebook. I never used to. I don't know why I started. But the ignorance is real.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
This is beautiful