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I've never really posted about him before. This is the boy I loved first. My first born. My son.

I wasn't ready to have a child. I was 19, in college full time (sometimes having classes from 1am-5am, or 5am-9am), no money, my then-boyfriend was addicted to coke, and I didn't know what to do. I *personally* could have never chosen abortion, so I did then next best thing which was adoption.

Our adoption is so open. We visit twice a year, call/FaceTime/text constantly and I can send him gifts whenever I want to. Adoption was the biggest blessing in my life. It completely saved me. Even though it's hard sometimes, and I miss him so much it hurts. I know he's where he's supposed to be. Being loved by soooo many ❤️

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Shayla Galloway ·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

This is beautiful

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Lacie Marie·Мама сына (4 года), беременна (24 нед.)

Your so strong ❤

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Rikki🌙·Мама дочки-младенца

@justusthree you have an amazing story. You did something very hard for you but blessed others with your decision.

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kammy·Мама сына-младенца

Same but when the time comes I'd do almost anything to get my child @rikki.ferguson

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Rikki🌙·Мама дочки-младенца

@kambam I've thought about wanting to adopt one day as well but people always talk about how difficult the process is and what not.

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kammy·Мама сына-младенца

Wanna adopt so bad someday. Perhaps you'll talk more about your process in the future and what its like to go through.

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Jordan·Мама дочки (1 год)

@kambam, thank you so much! And me too! It breaks my heart when you hear the not-so-successful ones 💔 since I've placed, I've learned soooo much about adoption and I've heard from all three sides of the triad. Some of the stories are absolutely heartbreaking and I feel awful for them. So thankful there are happy adoption stories

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kammy·Мама сына-младенца

He's so blessed and you're so lucky he found that love! I love adoption success stories 🙏

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Jordan·Мама дочки (1 год)

@vanessagarcia, thanks girl!! It was the hardest thing I've ever done, but definitely the best thing I've ever done ❤️ it's hard to break your own heart, but it makes it a little easier knowing you're doing the right thing.

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