I'm debating on still trying, just found out my SO grandpa has cancer and my mother's health is not good so I don't know if it would be worth trying with all the family stress, my SO wants to try but I don't this the added stress will be worth it, I just wish everything was different with my SO and my families health 😪
In my experience the news of your pregnancy shows hope i know when my grandma found out i was pregnant she was happy and even though she didnt get a chance to meet her great grandson she died when my son was 6 months old when she passed away we were planning on going up there around christmas because the christmas before that i was close to my due date and my mom didnt want to take the chance driving up there and me going into labor while we were there and it was a good decision considering we would have been up there until the 1st and i had my son on the 31st. But i believe bringing a child into the world sometimes it gives people hope my great great grandpa victor stayed alive 2 weeks after i was born the family said he stayed alive long enough to meet his great great granddaughter so he was happy to meet me and leave this world knowing he got to meet me first then my moms father stay alive until i was 2 years old when his cancer finally took over but he had whats called spider cancer started in his back after a shot and spread through his body
@first-time-mom I Hope So