I am so stressed out. I have no job because my old job replaced me since I disnt cone back after 2 weeks from giving…
I am so stressed out. I have no job because my old job replaced me since I disnt cone back after 2 weeks from giving birth to my daughter. My husband was supposed to start a new job on the 17th, but since it means moving from Dallas to Texarkana he's not sure if he wants to do it. I have no income right now and we're about to lose his and he thinks it's all ok even though we're running out if money for everything and He's about to not have a job. I'm losing my mind and if I stress to much I could lose my breast milk and if that happens I can't feed my child because we don't have the money for formula!!!
sherry S·
Your pediatrician office can give you formula they get lots of mid size samples...
Joy Hahn·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
How can your job only give you two weeks?! That seems crazy. I thought they had to give you at least 8. I got 14 when I had mine in CT. As for breastmilk, just try to relax while feeding. I swear babies can sense stress. Sorry for you!! 💙💙
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец)
They said that they don't want to give me any until we are sure I'm not producing milk for over a day.
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mattsgurl4eva the worst thing is I had an emergency C-section and have my daughter early and because of it I'm not able to go back to work but since the building itself only has two employees listed for that company by law it states if their 15 employees are less the company is not required to go by the FMLA law and they can do as they see fit.
Joy Hahn·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@kaytibug2009, oh wow. That is messed up. How far would your move be if your husband took that job? We moved from CT to AL with a 3 week old and almost 3 yr old
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mattsgurl4eva we'd move from Wilmer,TX to Texarkana,TX and that's about a 4 hour plus move. We have no family out there and I would be alone more than ever out there but he would be making good money.
Joy Hahn·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@kaytibug2009, that sounds similar to our situation. It makes it hard either way. Stay where you are without $ or move and just be you guys. We chose the $, but its definitely hard being away from all family.
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mattsgurl4eva what makes the problem worse is my husband doesn't really want the job so he's telling me, as of today, that he's not sure if he wants to do the job.... Oh and he stops working at his old job this coming Tuesday.... making it so we will have no income.
Joy Hahn·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@kaytibug2009, isn't he worried about it too? I'd definitely be stressing out too, but how is he with it all?
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mattsgurl4eva if he is, he isn't showing it and he's acting like everything is fine and ok.
Joy Hahn·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@kaytibug2009, oh wow. Sorry it's so stressful. Hope it all gets worked out soon. 💙💙
Kaylin Show·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@smash6684 sadly FMLA doesn't apply to my job. According to the law--PREGNANCY RIGHTS IN THE WORKPLACE
Employers have many questions regarding employee pregnancy issues. Here is an outline of the basic things to keep in mind about the rights of a pregnant employee:
Fewer than 15 employees:
If a business has fewer than 15 employees (counting anyone who works for the business, performing services for pay, for each working day in each of twenty or more calendar weeks in the current or preceding calendar year), it is not covered by any employment law relating to pregnancy or disability, and the business would be free to handle the situation in any way it deems appropriate. Of course, a business not covered by such laws would still want to treat its employees as fairly and consistently as possible, if for no other reason than to minimize complaints, unnecessary turnover, and the risk of unfavorable publicity.
Sadly there is only 4 people in the "company" for the building I was in so technically they don't have to follow the rules.