Anyone else just really not a huggy kind of person? I really don't enjoy hugging anyone other than…
Anyone else just really not a huggy kind of person? I really don't enjoy hugging anyone other than my husband and kids. If someone offers a hug, I don't resist or anything, but I'm never the one to reach out for one.
My husband seems to think this makes me the rudest person in the world. He comes from a huggy family, and huggy community. I don't 🤗
I'm pretty anti social, and socially awkward. I don't act awkward on purpose, even when I think I'm being perfectly friendly and social I'm apparently not. He gives me the hardest time about this 😧 As if I'm being intentionally awkward.
sherry S·
I am exact way.i hug all my 3 son's ..at times my man also hahah. I didn't Come from a huggy family either haahah..i feel like i can't breath when my man hugs me sometimes I'm 5*2 he's 5*11
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@sherrynygirl I just feel like hugs are more intimate, so it's weird hugging people I'm not married to or didn't birth, lol. I'm the same way about saying "I love you." I don't even like saying it to my mom 🤐
sherry S·
@joanna.davis My mom isn't motherly or grandmotherly rarely heard the i love u words...my dad was incredible.i am the youngest of 3 daughter's and my parent's were married until my dad passed away 8 yrs ago.All 3 of us were very close to our dad
chelli·
I'm the same way ill hug my kids hubby and my close family. I honestly don't consider not wanting to hug people as rude. I'm anti social and like to observe people. I think he shouldn't be so hard on you why force you out of what makes you comfortable, that's unfair.
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@sherrynygirl my mom isn't the best mom, but she was very huggy and said I love you a lot growing up. But for some reason I never really felt comfortable with it, haha.
I get a big emotional boost from hugging hubby and kids, weird, haha.
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@chelli He's very social, good with people. I've noticed "normal" people have the hardest time accepting that not everyone's brain functions the same way as theirs. "I do this, other people do this, why can't you just do it too?" 🙄
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I'm the same way. I can't even hug my mom without it being awkward lol
chelli·
My hubby social too I'm not I don't want to be that social with people let me just sit and watch
Alexius Ortiz·
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Lol, I'm the same way
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@chelli I don't think he realizes that his constant commenting actually makes it worse. Now I'm so aware of it, I'm so busy trying not to be awkward I end up being more awkward, lol.
chelli·
Men don't think like us I wish sometimes they did it would help so much
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@chelli yep 😧