I told my ex that he wouldn't be allowed near our child, if he started that. He has anger issues too.

@amandahenry546 yeah no I don't, nobody would take me to do it. My mom told me it was worthless. So...yeah guess not now...I'm looking for jobs now and have an interview Friday to just leave this house.

@bluepenguin do you not get wic? With you not working you should definitely be able to get it shoot might even be able to even when you are working depending on your pay

@amandahenry546 thanks, my boyfriend and I are trying to budget way more and save money, I have a job interview Friday, I hope I get the job. I enjoy being a stay at home mom, but I need to help save more money fast, she also has food stamps and has my son on the card and doesn't share the Money with me for groceries... luckily we don't spend much but...formula is expensive. I'm very excited to move forward in my life. I hope you guys find a solution, because you have a beautiful baby boy💜 there will always be a negative, but for the negative times will always come a positive 💕

@bluepenguin I definitely couldn't deal with that, I can not handle a mean drunk, shoot any drunk at all. I hope you get out of there soon.

@amandahenry546 trust me I understand. The best thing to do is to leave the room when he starts yelling. Or to take the baby out for a while until he cools down, until he gets help. I'm dealing with the same thing, my mother loves to scream, fight and start stuff almost over anything. She and my father fought like crazy when I was growing up and I do not want that, I always tell her that negativity isn't healthy for a baby, and she always blows me off. But I take my son out for a walk or in my room when she starts. The worst is that she gets mean drunk and she drinks almost everyday....that's why I'm trying to leave as soon as possible I can't take it anymore

@simmiebaby We have literally had that conversation so many times. Hes the nicest guy you will ever meet but when he gets mad he doesn't care about anything at all. He doesn't care about my feeling he doesn't care about frightening the baby he just becomes so selfish and that isn't the man I married and I just am to the point I can't take it anymore.

@bluepenguin He needs to do something because it's not even anything important to get mad over, it's always over stupid things. I would hate to see us ever get into an argument over something important. But then he will act like he can't handle all the stresses that come with these stupid arguments buy HE IS THE ONE WHO STARTS THEM!! We have been married for 7 years and I can honestly say I've never started an argument, i just don't see the point in arguing over something that honestly isn't a big deal, it just causes both of us to stress and say things we don't mean so what is the point. But I'm thinking of staying at my mom's a couple nights just to get some space.

I'd set up a time to talk to him when everything is calm and tell him how you feel and how you don't want the child to see this type of behavior between parents. If controlling voice levels and tempers aren't an option then space might be best. That's how I usually deal. Good luck!

I'm dealing with the same thing with my mom, my option is to move out when I get the money and I'm applying for jobs like mad. But I think he should probably go to therapy or find other ways to release stress in a non violent way