I hate the fact that you have to show people how to act around your child, how to have them respect your wishes. You shouldn't have to do that. People should respect the wishes of parents when it comes to their children. My mom on the other hand thinks that that shouldn't apply to her...... in her words "I've sacrificed so much for y'all I shouldn't have to ask for ANYTHING.. but this isn't my world" uhm .... as a parent aren't you supposed to do all that you can?! I know there are some parents that don't, I'm grateful mine did but I think it's selfish that she thinks she should get her way all of the time when it comes to my child.. we had an agreement and she broke the agreement and basically said I was upset for feeling the way I felt. I don't play when it comes to my baby. I don't care who you are. You don't have a right to see my baby, my SO sees it as a privilege, and honestly I do to. She doesn't respect anything I say or do and the one time I say something it's a problem 😡😡🙄🙄🙄she was supposed to come over today since my husband had work. She told me she had a late night and she may come this afternoon or this evening or tomorrow. We may not be home tomorrow so now it'll be a month since she's seen the baby, not my fault at all, but I'm sure she'll make it seem like it's my fault some way.
Комментариев ещё никто не написал.
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?
Soooo when you catch someone in a major lie but you don't want to blast them, what do you do? I now have no respect for them...
How do you and SO...
Come to an agreement about something you don't see eye to eye on? Do you talk about it until you come to a mutual agreement? Or does one of you cave and give in?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...