Get creative lol if you are open to experimenting with new things toys etc. Then go for it. @supermama143 don't feel to bad your clearly not alone

My son will be 2 in december and i still dont have a very good sex drive an my SO doesnt understand either so dont feel bad

@dmm1976 I wish!!! My husband always knows when I'm not in the mood the second I kiss him. He says he can see it in my eyes

Fake it till you make it ;)

I think it's totally normal, I just made myself attempt to be in the mood for my husband. It's definitely not how it was before baby but that's ok, new phase.

@jaz. Yes. I am ebf. But its hard to be like this, and it seems like my husband is taking it personal no matter how often I explain it is just hormones. So I'm trying to find ways to boost my libido so that it can be like it used to, at least for a little while

Are you breastfeeding? It's most likely hormones it should pass.