Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Tips to getting my 11week old to sleep in his crib. He cries and has a fit forever he eventually quiets down but picks right back up last night I think he fell asleep for like an hour before he was back up crying again then I just let him sleep with me :/ ugh I should of never let him sleep with me to begin with but I just wanted some sleep and now that's what he is use too 😔
Got home around 11... washed lil man up and made him a bottle... asked my husband to get off his phone and help me put him to sleep... as soon as I did, my husband sat on the couch and fell right to sleep with Zach in his arms... I walked over to him and picked Zach up and he has to nerve to jump awake talking about I scared him because he thought he dropped Zach... this is why I’ve stopped asking him to hold him... he is irresponsible... I ended up setting up Zach’s stand up floor lamp, rearranging his room, making him a late night/early morning bottle, rocking him to sleep in his car seat and then moving him to his room all while my husband was knocked out in the living room.... I swear I feel like a single mother
The lovely sound of early morning screams after ive been awake rocking him for the past 8 hours so he could sleep :)
I literally have to only give my dad and his gf enough for 1 bottle when I drop him off there every Tuesday because last week they were about to give him 6oz in an hour like are you crazy they said because he was crying, play with him give him attention and he won't cry pick him up and walk around with him. I told him he gets 3 oz at 7pm they ended up not giving him the 3 oz till 7:30 and we got there at 8:30 to pick him up and was feeding him again I lost my mind it pisses me off bc he has a schedule and they totally didn't listen
Noshin·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (18 нед.)
Sounds so difficult. I chose to sleep train at 4.5 months because I worried that when they got to the age to pull themselves up on the crib and scream mum at me and fall back and potentially hurt themselves, I wouldn't be able to do it. Personally if it is the route you want to go down then firstly pick a method, read up on it. I chose ferber and ordered his book, read it for a week or two before going through. And then when you decide to sleep train, stick to it. They will scream and cry and sweat and all sorts. But what helps with picking a method is that you can calm yourself as a parent if you know how to handle the situation. For example in ferbers method if bubba vomits, you're to go in, clean them up, no excessive contact, check they're okay and then put them back to bed and exit. However this may vary. Some babies do better if mum stays in the room and slowly moves out. It's just something you need to put a little time into and be quite strong about. Again, only if you want. I have sleep trained yet I still breastfeed to sleep because I like it. However he does sleep through because he has learnt to self soothe. To each thier own hun and good luck, xx
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