I know exactly how you feel!!! I am 36 weeks pregnant with a little girl, I currently have 2 boys ages 6 and 11. With both of htem I was so excited I couldn't wait, I couldn't stop shopping and getting everything ready and this time I feel like I am just to busy to even think about baby :( it makes me feel horrible! My last day of work is in two weeks so I am hoping the two weeks I have off before she comes I am able to let it sink in. I can feel her move I know I am pregnant but I just still can't even imagine another baby or even going into labor in the next couple weeks ugh
Aww i wish i could feel mine already lol but i agree with the other ladies i think it'll come with time. My mom felt like she could never love another child like she loved my sister(1st born) but once she held me she fell in love lol so she loves us both the same❤
I didn't see it happening either really. I dont have any other kids but ive founds mothers always seem to have more room in their heart for all their kids. Some women dont connect with their kids until theyre born or even til theyre a few months old. Dont panic and dont feel like a bad mom/person. Youve got this. Itll come.
This might sound terrible but it took me around 15 weeks to even start acknowledging my pregnancy. She was very much unplanned and i was stressing out about everything i didnt make any real connection with her until i had my 20 week ultrasound and i saw her heart beat and i could see her moving and flexing her little hands. The connection will come dont try to force it