Yes I'm under a certain age on my second child that still doesn't mean my life is over my babies are a blessing and for some reason the world wants me to hang my head in shame 😒😒
@brookemmoore same here married at 19 had my first born at 20 now planning my 2nd one hopefully when im 23 next year. I got my associates at 18 and should have my bachelor's if all goes well before my 24th birthday.
@essencecrowell, your so welcome. You don't deserve to go through that. As women we are expected to do so much, look a certain way, speak and think and act a certain way. I pay no mind to societies expectations and I'm completely content with who I am. @brookemmoore, I agree with that 100%, my sister was 15 when she had her first and she became the best mom at such a young age. She finished school, was on her own at 18 (with 2 kids by then) had her cert in early childhood education and development, got her CANA and Med tech by 20 and killed it as a single mom!!! All this with a terminally ill baby. She did have my help though. I moved in with her when I was 16 got a job and raised those boys.
Girl I was married by 19 with my first son before I was 21. I won't lie, I was a lot more naive back then, but I was still a good mom and I made sure my boy was taken care of! It's not impossible and we do learn as we get older, but there is no set age in which makes us a better mom!
This is my mom! Im 24 on my second. Im engaged. Have our own place n goals with plans. My mom makes it sounds like i ruined my life cause im not working or going to school. Which will always be there! Im planning to go back. Smh
@mommiesaremagical14, thank you so much mommas ❤️❤️❤️ y'all are making my morning I hate that's how society wants to make the women who carries and gives birth to all man kind feel @skysmommy04,
Girl I'm about to be 26 on my second married and I don't have my own apartment 😒 they'll be iight as long as your children are loved and cared for that's all that matters
F*!#? Them. Do what makes you happy. My sister had hers young and she's happy she did. She had all 4 boys by 23 years old. The world today is conditioned to judge. We live in an ignorant world. The only way to hold your own is to hold your head up high and ignore their words. You and you alone know what's good for you and your kids and what makes you happy. Focus on that
Im 20 pregnant with my first child everything will be ok u cant let negativity get to you.