Ariel Gayler
arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

has anyone experienced a child who doesn't want to use the potty? My son fully understands the process of using the potty and knows when he has to go but he just doesn't want to use the potty. He loves diapers/pullups 😐. I have tried getting him his favorite underwear, a potty with one of his favorite characters, I've tried just sitting him on it with a book as well as reading the potty book.

I even took a suggestion from our pediatrician to just put underwear on him without anything else so that when he had an accident it would be uncomfortable and encourage him to use the potty.... nope. He just pooped in them and didn't say a word until I smelled it... 😞

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@soshielda5121989 that makes me feel better. I hope soon he will want to use it lol

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mommytotwo
sabrina·Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет)

My son did want to use the potty either, he's 6 now but I had tried everything to potty train him, snacks if he goes a sticker chart just making him wears underwear. Nothing, finally one day he came up to me and said he wanted underwear I told him that means you have to use the potty, he said ok. He had one accident nothing in two years

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

@arielamore85 yes, keep us updated. Don't get discourage if it doesn't work right away. Try it for half month. Some people give up to easy and not give it time to really work("

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@momofdeuce I will! I'll update on this thread

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breederofboyz
👑Ore👑·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)

@arielamore85 let me know too .

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breederofboyz
👑Ore👑·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)

That's true ! @mrs.c

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@mrs.c That is a good idea. I am starting that tomorrow morning. I will be so happy if it works. I will post how it goes lol

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@mrs.c yeah he ripped a poop diaper off one day and just dropped it on the floor. 🤤 I am going to keep on him about it and hopefully soon we can ditch the pull ups

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

@arielamore85 so was i! My hubby was getting ready for work that day and said "we're out of pull ups" I looked at him like and? Lol that's when I told him what we're going to do every time our son goes in his boxes(for not trying to use the potty)

So I explained to our son. Every time you pee or poop, you will stand by the door scream or crying, it's up to you. How I explained it is if you want to be nasty and messy that's fine, but you will not get it on the clean floor. Lol (bad mom here) but it worked.

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

@arielamore85 if you need to extend the time go for it. Because he is a little other than my son was. But not too long because you don't want him to get a rash or infection from the poop going to his penis. We know it gets everywhere

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@mrs.c yes I am so tired of the pull ups. I will try anything at this point lol

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

@momofdeuce girl, we'll always be label as a bad mom for something lol

I don't let it get to me like I used to.

Hahaha right?

@arielamore85

But having him change it might be good and have him clean up his mess.

The way we teach our boy, is there are things you don't want to do but you have to do it or get it done.

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

lol yes@momofdeuce I put him in undies and he pooped and sat in it 😕😂 I am going to attempt giving him the 5 minutes standing in it and see if that works...if he still doesn't care then he will just have to change his own diapers 😂

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

@arielamore85 you definitely should. I know buying training pants are not fun lol

Some people will say it will cause life problems(mental ones) our oldest if fine. He's never had an accident at night. The only time is when someone is in the restroom and he barely makes it. But other than that nothing

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breederofboyz
👑Ore👑·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)

Aha I was gonna give the advice of having him sit in for a while @mrs.c but didn't want to be labeled a "bad mom" but I think she said her son didn't Care smh lol

@arielamore85 then you'll have poppy diapers just laying around wondering where that Smell is coming from 😂😂

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@mrs.c that's a good idea! I will try that!

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

@momofdeuce yes they can! My boy is still stubborn and baby bro bro is just as stubborn (he might be more!) haha

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mrs.c
L.Cortez·Мама двоих (младенец)

Our oldest was the same way by a year and a half he knew what to do, but just didn't want to. We tried everything from rewards, stickers, sitting, reading. Well he would say "I don't want a toy right now, so no potty"

So I told him(just turned 3) if you pee or poop in your boxers then I'm going to make you stand by the door in your poop or pee boxers. He did pee once, made him stand by the door in his peed boxers(5 minutes). Right after he showered and was clean, he told me I need to pee and from that day on he was using his potty.

I just did not what my son to be 3 in training pants Or to keep buying them. If he knew how to just didn't want to.

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

yess 😕I've told him once he reaches 5 he has to change his own diaper. 😂

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breederofboyz
👑Ore👑·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)

Yea kids can be really stubborn 😑

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arielamore85
Ariel Gayler ·Мама сына (4 года)

@momofdeuce yeah, we have clifford stickers for sitting and reward bucks if he goes which go towards different things but he still doesn't seem to want to use it. :/

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breederofboyz
👑Ore👑·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (28 нед.)

Have u tried the reward chart? Like for just sitting on the potty they get a sticker.. For peeing in the potty they get a small reward... & for pooing in the potty he gets something better ?

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