Mommas, is it normal to have such a drastic change in your sex drive in the first trimester? I don't remember feeling this way with my daughter. I love my hubby and having sex with him was amazing fantastic but he's on the rather large side so it's painful and what use to turn me on doesn't at all anymore. I have to force myself to have sex with him and the whole time I'm secretly dreading it except for like once a week it'll be very good. This sucks! And I'm hoping it changes soon because I feel terrible and he's so patient and understanding. Ugh ladies this isn't easy