We relocated for my husband's job almost 4 years ago from NJ to SC and I'm having a hard time finding friends that have the same values and parenting as myself. Is any other moms OCD and like a clean house and make their children learn to take care of their things and value what they have?? I find that many parents here don't have rules and let their kids make the rules. I'm getting frustrated because people irritate me. No one pays attention to their kids anymore. Maybe I'm just an old soul and have to look the other way. My kids are my everything and I'll be damned if another kid is going to bully my kid on the playground. I teach my kids to respect others and I feel other parents should do that as well. Am I wrong???