All in a matter of minutes, my life fell apart.. I joined the app called whisper because I can't be…

I downloaded whisper before this app and it was awful!!!!! The men were rude as fuck and perverts!! Along with everyone's posts talking about the most horrific things! That's when I got rid of it and found mom.life and was so relieved when I did. They need to ban whisper, its awful!!

@juliaschade41, like who the hell tells someone that?! Like I don't believe it,

I mean now I have my doubts but adoption? Since when did kids need a two parent household? I think she's better off with not having her parents together and miserable than having them together and fighting.. I just can't believe he belittled me and made me feel so shitty...

Girl he is one man and he will get what's coming to him. Don't let it get to you. I understand cuz I was on that app too and horrible things were said to me. Just stay on this app where people actually have hearts and care. Your daughter needs you and only wants you. Her heart beats because of yours and will love you forever. That man has no life, probably no woman, and no kids. His life is probably miserable and so trying to make it the same for others. And he knows that pregnant women are more emotionally unstable and he was just taking advantage of that to make himself feel good. He's a fucking loser and probably knows it. Your daughter is here for a reason and no child is a mistake. I'm single myself and carrying a little girl and I wouldn't trade my situation for the world. You got this mama!!💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

That is just disgusting. I am so sorry you had to listen to that... you are not the only women to raise a baby in a single parent household. Nobody can choose your daughters fate besides you, and later on , herself... your daughter is an absolute blessing, and as long as you work hard , like you say you are doing, she will be just fine. Don't ever care or worry about what other people say, espically strangers who have no idea who you are. Keep your head up, your going to be a great mother to your daughter ❤

@juliaschade41, it's just stupid. I love my daughter more than anything and honestly, she's the best thing to happen to me but I'm literally at a loss of words for what he said.. thank you mama. 💕

@claudiaporteous, thank you mama.. I'm just literally at a loss right now... I can't believe it.. I know this world is cruel but no one has put me down for being a single mom...

@caityyy_lynnn they put us down cuz they know they wouldn't be able to handle it themselves😜 we're super women!!💪💪💪

My husband says that strong independent women raise strong independent women by listening to his comments you're letting him affect you and you're taking away from your own strengths and that's how you fail your daughter don't ever let no man tell you that your decisions are wrong will you need to be as strong and show your daughter that you by yourself Will be able to give her a life that a man probably wouldn't have been able to give her but you need to be strong for her to teach her that being strong is the way to be and that you don't need a man or anybody much less in order to make it in this world@caityyy_lynnn

@rose15, I wasn't showing him it was getting to me, I actually reported him and blocked him. But he did say things that hurt a lot actually and I know this app is great and won't send anymore judgements down my throat. It just hurts that most people see single parents that way.

@kitcatmeow8383, he doesn't know that he was getting under my skin, but I needed to vent about it because I was really close to just losing it...

@caityyy_lynnn yea some men could be dicks you should see for yourself that he didn't have a mother or father to teach him from right or wrong so he judges other people that at willing to try and to go to the end of the world for there's single or not fuck him forget his Comments this app is so much better all you get one here is mom's that may be going through what your going through and you will find mom's that could tell you that not all men are like

@rose15, he was raised by his mom. A single parent. Which surprised me at what he said.

@caityyy_lynnn his mom probably treated him like shit

Wow that guy is patheticccccc. I think youre amazingly strong for being a single momma! Your daughter isnt gonna miss out on anything just cuz she doesnt have a dad. And plus who knows what the future holds. Keep your chin girl ❤❤ you got this.

Hey, I follow this blog called postsecret. It's like whisper, but postsecret has been around longer. The only thing is, you mail in your secret to him and he posts it. And there's new secrets every Sunday. Sometimes it can feel good to just write it, send it, and let it go. Plus reading them makes me feel not so alone.

People can be mean. You're doing an amazing job. we're all just trying to do our best. Some people just think it'll make them feel better by dragging other people down. Keep your head up. 💕

Okay. This is ridiculous. Im going to tell you something that i have accepted and moved on with. I was out of state. Ran away from an engagement, my family and friends because I lost a baby. While out of state, i ended up getting attacked while on my way home and was raped. I didnt even think to report, or go to the hospital because i was embarrassed. Scared. And just wanted to lock myself away. Well, i packed up and went back to NY. I got really sick and found i was pregnant. By the time i got insurance, and settled with an ob i was around 18 weeks. So i went for my first ultrasound and found i was having a boy. I decided to keep him. I got judge in all different ways. People told me i shouldve aborted. That no guy would want me bc i was raped. No guy would want to raise a rape victims baby. That my son would suffer through life not having a father. Well, i adjusted to life again, kicked a bunch of people out of my life, and got my shit together. A little before my son was born, a life long friend and i got close. My son was a week old when we met up for coffee, and ofcourse my son came with, and from there we justgor closer and now are engaged and hes going to adopt my son. Hes the only man my son knows. And since hes been able to talk, he calls my fiance daddy, and my fiance calls him son. This man has accepted every bit of my truth, and does not treat me like a victim, does not say i shouldve left my son behind. Hes an amazing man. Youll find someone some day thall love all of you. Including your child

@caityyy_lynnn, I'm sorry that happened to you. People are mean and cruel and enjoy making others feel as miserable as they are. In all my years I have come to the fact that I can't worry what anyone thinks of me or my life I just have to be and know that good things come to good people. You work hard and be who you are, I don't let anyone who is negative in my life even if they are blood, you have to do what rights for you and your baby. There are so many great single moms out there and they are super women because they do the job of mom and dad so don't let anyone bring you down🤗. @allyk.xmommy, you are such a strong woman to go through all that and still give that baby a great life despite the circumstances, so glad you found a great guy to be there for you and help you through all that.🤗

@andreamcrts4 thank you. He is a little over 2 years old now. And hes the best thing that has EVER happened to me

@allyk.xmommy, that's awesome, I'm sure he will be very grateful and proud of how strong of a mama you are.

@allyk.xmommy, @andreamcrts4, thank you mamas. I really do appreciate all the positive people! 💕