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I struggled to breast feed my first daughter and she is more attached to my husband because she had to go to the NICU…

I struggled to breast feed my first daughter and she is more attached to my husband because she had to go to the NICU right after she was born and i wasn't allowed to go. With my second, she latched on quickly and i am bonding more with her. I feel closer to my youngest than my oldest. And it makes me feel bad. I feel like my oldest doesn't need me and seeks out her father more than me 🙁

I'm sure that's kinda normal though. Mines the opposite. Couldn't breastfeed my 40 weeker but I'm breastfeeding my 29 weeker. I think my husband bonded more with my first son and I had more snuggle time in the nicu than my husband did with the itty bitty so he tends to be attached to me. I know it's normal to feel the way you do, but it doesn't mean either child loves you less or needs to less. It's just a different way of needing you. My first son is almost 6 and I'm chopped liver- he loves dad and will run to him every chance he gets. My almost 2 year old is "lost without mom" as my husband says.

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I can't believe it My cousin stayed with me rent free from September 2015 to April 2016 and her stuff is still in my…

I can't believe it My cousin stayed with me rent free from September 2015 to April 2016 and her stuff is still in my apartment. She's been saying she was going to come get her stuff for months. She text me this morning saying that she was going to come and get her stuff soon, and I asked her if I could have her air mattress. She tried to charge me $60 for it. The air mattress sells new for $35 on amazon and she didn't even pay $60 for it. I didn't respond and she just text me saying the $60 was for a microwave she bought me and her air mattress. When she got the microwave, it was a gift. Then when my son was in the hospital from October to January out of town, I was going to get my internet service turned off until I returned home. My cousin was doing school work online, so I paid for it while I was away so she could use it. I'm trying to figure out a response to her. ?

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older…

I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!

Why does she love him more than me 😩😩 I think he loves her more than me too lol

Will your Mom be in the delivery room?

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.