As a new mother I do not profess to know everything in the world about being a parent. I do not know a lot of things. I feel like we as new mothers get so hormonal and sometimes overwhelmed that we feel attacked when people simply try open heatedly to offer advice and help. Every day I get on social media I see posts about mom shaming. Is Mom shaming even a real thing? I think if we honestly quit thinking we know the best way or the right way to go about everything and just took others experiences and opinions as mere experiences and opinions and not get so offended over them that maybe there wouldn't be so many hormonal women getting upset over things. Yes I do agree there are boundaries but I don't think there is one way to do everything. (This does not go with the car seat safety issue. There is a right way and a wrong way and so forth on feeding your child) but.. I do feel like we let ourselves believe we are being attacked when sometimes in many cases people are just trying to share and help. Now I know some women are the devil and just want to ruin people's lives I get that. Lol but I just wanted to speak out and say before you jump to conclusions.. and say this person attacked me..change the tone in which you read what they are saying don't make a mountain out of a mole hill..calm down mama. I know for myself. I am gonna give people the benefit of the doubt. And new experiences and advice and opinions are welcome. But be smart about it just because someone offers doesnt mean you have to do what they say.. and never ever ask for advice if you don't want it! Or to appreciate it because then you cause senseless drama. Let's stop being so .. ridiculous not everyone is against you mama! Remember that! We all struggle and none of us know "everything"