No judging please. But curious what is your children's summer time bed time and school time bedtime? My ex is always getting mad at me the couple times my almost 11 year old has text him at 1030 or so. But usually for something big. Like last night she finally lost her tooth she been wiggling for weeks. It came out bout 1030 and when all the excitement went down she brushed teeth and went to bed. Which is where she was sent originally bout 1015 and that's when tooth was dangling it took her bit to actually pull it lol she was scared. During school my younger kiddos are in bed at 8 sometimes 830 at latest my oldest is in bed by 9. But on summer I'm more lenient. But they are always in bed by 10 30. Last night somethi nf happened she was excited it's summer I don't find it big deal so was curious as to other kids bedtime routine