I feel like right now is the perfect gap for me. Everyone will feel differently, but how i viewed it was that i wanted to bond and only focus on my son until he was able to do more on his own. Hes obviously out of diapers, feeds himself, is able to clean up after himself and help me around the house. Hes officially a big boy. If i end up getting pregnant soon i wouldnt worry about that anymore now that he is older, when he was that age that was my main concern. Now i know nothing will affect our relationships, on the contrary.. he would be able to help me :) Then again, if you get pregnant sometime soon it will probably be more work with them closer in age but they may grow up to be closer in turn. There are positives and not so positives to everything, you just have to choose whats best for you! @kparis

When I saw the plus sign lol

It's totally normal to feel like that. I have 4 girls and I felt that way with all of them like I wasn't going to have the same relationship with them but that never changed.

@kparis, ooh yes that would make it a little easier for you. I got pregnant when my son was 9 months

@myworld94, Pyper is 17 months now, so they would be a little over two years if I got pregnant soon 🤔

@kparis, they're 18 months apart

@klp16, it's so hard to think about damaging Pyper and i's relationship! I know I shouldn't think of it like that but I can't help it😭

@myworld94, how far apart are they?

That's cool

I am in the same boat!

I want another baby so bad too but I really bad knowing jj will have to share me and @tamrynstephens, nov 1st is my birthday

If you want another baby I'd say just go for it🙂 i think it's better to have them close in age. I was worried about that too but it didn't affect our relationship, and the bond that my sons have is so amazing. I'm definitely glad I had another baby so soon because they have each other and they play together, sometimes it gives me a break so I can clean