My baby daddy doesn't know if hes ready to be a father. Any advice? Im not keen on being a single mom but i dont really…

Now is too late thinking if he ready or not))) He will be a father) I think when he will see a baby, he will stop doubt)

@virakhilia i try talk to him about custody and stuff and just says idk

@ib.crazyskittles18, Firs of all this baby is yours, and if he is no ready yet... this is his choice. But I think when man love woman, he is never leave her in this situation...

@lex_6 how much time did it take him to open up?

Comunication. You HAVE to talk in order for his to survive. It's so important to explain how you feel. No matter how mushy and corny it sounds. You have to let him know that you're scared that he's not in this with you. You might be surprised at what he says. He might not be much of a feelings kind of guy but if you get emotional he might be more comforting than you think.

@mommy1991 i try to talk to him about custody and stuff and he just says idk

@ib.crazyskittles18 okay but it's not about custody. Do you love each other? Do you both care about this baby? Do you want to be there for this baby and each other? There are bigger things that matter than who gets to keep the baby. This child is going to take your time, your sleep, every ounce of energy your body holds. You have to both be willing to hold each other up when you need it because you WILL need it. And if all he can say is "I don't know" you have to get prepared to raise this baby alone. And if that's what you want to do and if you think you can do it on your own I think most moms would tell you to go for it. Being a happy single mom is better than being an unhappy mom with a boyfriend that doesn't care or that has no desire to be part of the family.