I just need to vent here for a minute! My moms boyfriend is the closest thing I've ever had to a father however the way he treats my mom and his attitude sucks. He makes 1600-2000 a month and only pays half of rent and the water bill a total of $600 he then sends his mom $200 so he would still have 800-1200 left right? Yeah no he spends it all getting high(he has his medical card) or going to the bar. He gets off work at 2 pm yet goes to hang out with either his female friend or his male friend and he drinks every time then comes home in a shitty ass mood with my mom every single time. He has literally washed 2 pans and 1 fork the entire year he's lived with us and won't take the trash out, wouldn't help paint, never takes care of feeding watering or cleaning after his own dog. I'm in my 7th month of pregnancy and he hasn't helped me get baby stuff not one bit. I have gall stones and have been told not to eat pork at all until I can have the surgery to remove my gallbladder yet he makes my mom make pork products almost every night like literally 9 out of the past 14 days its been pork because he doesn't want chicken and refuses to eat any other beef than steak. He has helped with groceries maybe a handful of times but that's it my mom pays for his gas, half of rent, electric, does the majority of housework and he still comes home and is an asshole hes told her to shut up before and if she asks how his "friend" is he immediately gets defensive and tells her "to stop asking questions about her". My mom loves him very much but its bullshit she also can't leave him because with her paychecks she doesn't make enough to pay rent and water and electric and car insurance and gas and groceries without him due to the fact I'm on bed rest and its really taking a toll on her behavior and mental state he calls her crazy because the second he's around his female friend then he refuses to answer my moms texts or calls its so damn rude and all she does is defend him and tell me to stop being a hormonal bitch and its like uhh Wtf