While going to court with my so for his child support stuff we got into it bc of how I think and said pretty much I'm an angry old lady. Any who he had asked me to go with him since last week and today he goes while on the way there that he thinks I shouldn't have gone bc his bm is still not over him that that's why she put him on court and this and that so yeah that got me upset then he goes well are you gonna go in or you waiting in the car I was so mad at that point that I got out the car and started walking towards a store I saw in the main road a couple miles from court I've been sitting here just thinking am I really happy or no. Bc if I was as nice to my bd as he is to his bm he would flip out about it. But she can tell him jump and he will. Idk sorry about the rant I'm just sitting at the store waiting
Then just leave him! you don't need that and what is sorry going to do if he's going to keep doing it
@livebreatheanna, yeah I'm just so overwhelmed specially with my emotions everywhere don't know if to be angry upset sad I just want to cry. And yeah I get sick from being so upset and he thinks is funny and that just saying sorry is ok. Literally a started walking and he could careless didn't bother to txt me to see where I was going or anything I got to the a road without sidewalk and an old lady stopped to make sure I was ok and gave me a lift
yea I guess you're right.. If he didn't care or have feelings for her. He wouldn't be so extra about it! And you're right it probably isn't ok for the baby! I get into arguments whit my brothers all the time and the way I feel is super stressfull and emotional
@livebreatheanna, we'll see I know he is but pretty much his child support is set last week and then she decided to put him on back pay child support and to pay daycare and he had prove that he gave her money every time he got pay so she dropped that and just going so he can get him every other weekend so he shouldn't be stressed at all everything was taking care off he just likes picking fights with. Me when I'm upset like why would you care if your bm is not over you oh well unless you still not over her you know and then making statements like if I was her man I wouldn't be with her bc she is obviously still not over me I think I get more angry than actually happiness and stress I have enough with my bd to add his bm to my stress. Am is not good for baby
He's probably just stressed about the situation! I don't think child support is easy at all. And some girls can be so petty especially if they see he is happy somewhere else! I mean that still isn't an excuse for him to act the way he does.. Just be patient! But if you're questioning if you are happy or not.. I guess you should let him go! You don't deserve to feel that way
@livebreatheanna, yeah I'm waiting for him to get out so I can go home and get my stuff my car and go