My boyfriends parents keep pressuring us to get married. I told them I just wana wait until we know we're completely ready for that. and they're like "ready?? You are you have a...

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My boyfriends parents keep pressuring us to get married. I told them I just wana wait until we know we're completely ready for that. and they're like "ready?? You are you have a baby, that means you're ready" ... noo it doesnt. We wana get married eventually but feel like its too soon & they don't understand that just bc we have a baby.

Megan Westfield · Answer

@morenita well we didn't purposely get pregnant. I was told by doctors when I was younger that it would be a difficult in my future. So me getting pregnant was never even thought of. But it happend and we weren't ready in the beginning but we were by the time he got here. We want to get married but we see no rush in it. We'll  do it wen we feel it's the right time

Angela Garcia · Answer

I have a question though? Ain't having a baby is having a big commitment also? I never understood not wanting to marry but wanting a baby, isn't it like the same? No judgement- I just always been curious out that?

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This. My husband's aunt, among other family members were pressuring us to get married even before out daughter was born. She's one now and we just got married two weeks ago. It's because WE wanted to. Don't listen to them. They don't control your lives 😉☺

Ashley · Answer

Don't ever rush a thing like marriage it takes a lot of work and commitment just ignore them

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