Last year I had c section and was told that I shouldnt have anymore children due to my uterus being paper thin and if i were to get pregnant again both me and baby could die I do not believe in abortions however i feel in this case i should consider it was told the only my insurance pays for abortion is it had be a case of rape or incess ( i think thats how you spell it) any advice ladies
Your four kids could be his kid....yeah giving him his own will be nice but if he really loves you he wouldnt care
Your life is on the line soooo what decision you make really matter no matter what others may say and feel......plus you already have four kids....... If you do get a abortion ill set up an tye the tubes soon after so you dont have to worry about pregancny again
Yeah and get a second opinion from another doctor
Wowwww thats a tough one....do you believe in God or some b belief?? If it was me I wouldnt do the abortion and also ill make sure i tye my tubes after this one.......the reason i wouldnt do abortion I believe in God and believe he wont give me anything i cant handle and also that he keeps his promises for my future....i say pray and go with your heart...... God forgives ....if you really feel like your life will end then do it
@expectingbaby5 yeah I would talk to your doctor
@hthomas0308 dont get me wrong i want to give him a baby its just not worth my life
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom im just not really able to enjoy this pregnancy because im a afraid of a bad outcome however this is his first and i wanted to give him that but i feel like i can't i have 4 kids who need me i feel if i die he will move on my kids will be hurt forever i want to terminate the pregnancy
That's a tough one...have you spoke to your doctor since finding out you are pregnant again?? I would speak to your doctor and see what their advice is, I too am against abortions, but if you are gonna have your life threatened and the baby then I would be concerned...
Advice for what part? I can reassure you d&c's aren't a bad procedure to do. I understand it could be emotionally difficult if you don't believe in abortions but your health and wellness should be your main concern in a situation like this. As far as your insurance I would recommend you talk to your OB and weigh out the options for continuing the pregnancy so you can know if there is a chance that the pregnancy will be healthy for you and baby. I know in some cases they don't recommend c sections to be less than 18 months apart but tons of women get pregnant and do fine anyway. It's all a matter of figuring out what's best for you.
*edited to add: you should get a second opinion by another OB. Sorry, I saw that you were told already that it wasn't the best idea to get pregnant again but it didn't click in my head until I re read it.
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