If you ladies had your brother ask you to watch his three kids for FIVE days with your one year old daughter so he and his wife could go wine tasting would you do it? Keep in mind he has already booked and paid for the hotel because they assumed my mom would do it, but she's going on a cruise. This will be two weeks after we move and Olivia will have to spend the night with me at their house while she's getting used to a new place and will just be sleep trained. I love my brother. We are close and he's done a lot for me. I'm just torn. It's a long freaking time. I don't understand why he thought it was ok to just assume my mom would do it. He's going to pay me if I do it, so the extra money is great, but staying overnight is going to be annoying. I feel bad saying no because he's my brother. Supposed to give him an answer tonight 😕
@marilyn2492, @andrea318, @suzieq.sanchez1412, so he totally made me dinner to bribe me and I took it lol. I told him yes. I guess they're only gone for four days. They have a huge bathtub so Olivia will love that. And the kids are old enough to watch themselves. My brother just says he wants someone there.
He's lucky he's such a good brother lol. Thank you ladies for all your help ❤️
@missliss I'm sorry I misread it...don't know how I could have lol....but I would watch all 5 nights...is there anyway they can stay at your house if you aren't wanting to be away from home or spend the days at your house and nights at his or vice versa?
@suzieq.sanchez1412, thank you ❤️ they're older. 12, 10, and 8. It's just a lot of kids to look after. They've done this since their oldest was born, they schedule stuff without asking and then stress us all out so we have to move stuff and change stuff. I think that's what's bothering me most. I'm so tempted to say no so they learn they can't do this kind of stuff but I doubt they would change. I love them but it's super irritating
I would my nephews are really good for the most part how old are his little ones but I understand you're trying to change tradition your daughter into sleeping in her own place but she will understand she still little because for the most part when you move into your own place your child will sleep with you for a while good luck mama
@andrea318, thanks mama 😊 so you would tell him one night instead of four?
@missliss, so glad to hear that is awesome