Ok so i have a problem i am a first time mom and my anxiety gets so bad i think i want to have a c section because its…

If you want a big family the more c sections you have the more dangerous it becomes I would only do it if it's medically necessary

My personal advice would be dont have a major surgery if u dont have to believe It or not pushing baby out is way easier on the body . good luck though and if it has to do with messing ur vagina get over that right now lol. Also once u have inr csection u rarely have a vagina birth after and will be cut in the same place everytimr. And a scar isn't the prettiest thing either. Ultimately pushing is better than getting cut on!

A lot of people say c section is actually way worst recovery. I'm a ftm too, I'm TERRIFIED about giving birth but I only want a c section if the doctors say I need one. It's going to be hard but I'm so excited to get to experience pushing my baby out and then getting to have her on my chest. All the pain will be so worth it. Your body was made to give birth, you got it!! The c section will be more painful anyways. & if you have any more kids in the future and want to have a vaginal birth you might not be able to. I wouldn't do it unless there's a medical reason you need one. You will do great.

@smash6684, my doctor said its my body i will have my baby how i want except water birth because this really high risk for pregnancy

Idk how it is where u r but here u can't just decide u want a c section lol it's a bit crazy

@smash6684, i dont have one scheduled but i was thinking since they schedule a c section it would help with my anxiety

I wouldnt do it. I have bad anxiety too, but a C section takes a lot of recovery, a natural birth is easier with the healing and less trauma on your body. When I was having my son I was pretty calm because I was in the hospital they constantly update you on everything going on with you and baby.