Can someone PLEASE TRY TO COMFORT ME. I'm having a baby for the first time. And I starting to get nervous. I can literally have a heart attack ☹no lie .I'm scared and all . Trying to get mentally ready. I need advice.
I think contractions for all my 3 son's hurt way more..When they came out i was 👌 i instantly felt like i can breath
Yeah don't watch that stuff it will just freak you out
@mommysbabies wow..... hmmm well today was the last day I watch u tube videos. I'm done
@rooster, good luck with everything.. I'm here if u wanna talk
Honestly I just did iv pain meds and the actual tearing felt like an Indian burn it wasn't as bad as people made it see
@rooster, u gotta treat yourself.. get all the sleep you can n just get prepared for ya lil one
@rooster, gurrrrrl yessss stop watching the videos.. everyone's labor is different.. just keep your mind off the labor part.. shopping helps
@dinamarie2604 I think I should stop watching videos. It scares me. Was just trying to get mentally ready and to know what to expect. Sighhhhhh. Life is hard .
@rooster, umm well you can try taking a nice bath.. eating fruits.. do things that makes you happy..
Just take it easy hunnie and breathe..Yes it may seem scary but it's all worth it once you see your lil munchkin.. Just try to stay stress free.. You got this mama 😊😊
Best advice I can give you is to relax you will make mistakes just try and do your best the nurses will help if you need it don't stress about it it's the most amazing feeling in the world when you see them for the first time all your fears go out the window I promise
I'm still trying to get a feel for this app but are there any STAHM here?
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
Natural Birth
Any moms out there given birth without meds? I have people asking me all the time if I'm going to get the epidural and I say no I will try my hardest not to. And some of them tell me that I will have in an get it, or they look at me like I'm crazy lol my sister in law, who is pregnant now with her first, told me there's no way I can do it without the epidural. She's getting the laughing gas.

Can I see all the mommies belly's and how many weeks are you 😁 sorry that's the only pic I have that you can actually see my baby I'm 23 weeks today what do you think I'm having ?
@mommysbabies ok cool