I need to vent... I feel bad but then again I shouldn't... my SIL is 18 just graduated high school but she doesn't want to help herself... she at a stage nobody can tell her anything because she graduated and she is grown but I've been doing most her things for her.. like signing her up for college and making sure she had turned this and that in and blah blah But she wants everyone to do things for her so she can sit back and relax... ummm no I am a helpful person but I have to see you at least want to help yourself... and so I told myself if she comes calling asking for "help" don't do it... so she came over today because she needs to print papers and I guess she was thinking I was gonna help so she sat there at the computer for 40 minutes on her phone... so I guess she got mad or got the clue I wasn't going to "help"so she left... should I feel bad?
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@correa_tabatha, maybe I feel about the same; biased because I graduated high when I was 16 and did everything I had to do to start college the same month I graduated... so I don't see any excuses...
No need to feel bad at all she is 'grown' let her see what 'grown' really is ... (Sorry I may be biased on this ... I was thrown out into the world when my mom passed away and had to grow up )
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom I agree with you mommas
I feel taken advantage of... because I go out my way to truly help her and she doesn't make an effort for herself
Nope nope nope . She needs to learn how to be independent . I'm not saying don't help her at all but a little help should go a long way .
@nury_rodriguez_2010 yea I had to raise 2 children and go to college and maintain 2 job when my mother passed just to keep a roof over ours heads so I dont see any excuses either ....