I need to vent... I feel bad but then again I shouldn't... my SIL is 18 just graduated high school but she doesn't want to help herself... she at a stage nobody can tell her anything because she graduated and she is grown but I've been doing most her things for her.. like signing her up for college and making sure she had turned this and that in and blah blah But she wants everyone to do things for her so she can sit back and relax... ummm no I am a helpful person but I have to see you at least want to help yourself... and so I told myself if she comes calling asking for "help" don't do it... so she came over today because she needs to print papers and I guess she was thinking I was gonna help so she sat there at the computer for 40 minutes on her phone... so I guess she got mad or got the clue I wasn't going to "help"so she left... should I feel bad?