kailey smith
kailey
kailey smith·Мама дочки (2 года)

So I need some advice. My mil is my babysitter. I work full time 10-6. We don't pay her but when she asks for anything we're happy to help. So I injured my eye and I stayed the night at her house because I wasn't able to see for a couple days and they don't feed my child lunch. I understand there's not a lot of money and they have a lot of people to feed but she's two. There's also another 2yr old there. They tried to put both of them down for a nap just now but I got the lunch ready before they could grab them. I'm not going to pay them because they don't her anything, do fun things, and it's not a completely clean environment. If I pay any money it will be to a daycare where I know my child is actually taken care of. The problem is I can't really afford real daycare but if they're not going to feed my child that's a problem.

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kailey
kailey smith·Мама дочки (2 года)

Packing a lunch would cause problems cause they have a lot of children there. (Cousins and my so siblings) I know they have snack foods for when the older kids get home from school so I just don't understand why they don't feed the little ones.

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nerualauren
lauren·Мама сына (7 лет), беременна (20 нед.)

You can her lunch or bring some thing you know your daughter likes and she can prepare t there herself

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kpost
Kirstin Post·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (10 нед.)

I would definitely bring it up and see what they say. Then offer to prep her meals for them. I always prep my kids food for the sitter so I know what she's eating and how much incase she has a reaction or gets "backed up" I know what she had and to cut back or completely get rid of it...

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ballarinagirl87
Beth·Мама сына (5 лет)

If they can't afford it you can pack her a lunch it be good practice for school

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Why are they not feeding the baby? Why don't you pack her lunch?

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aleclee3883
Alec Glandon·Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет)

Say something to them! That's not acceptable. And let them know if the reason they aren't feeding them is due to lack of food that you will provide food or start paying them. I disagree with you not paying them in the first place because they are providing lunch every day for you children as well as drinks and snacks.. that money has to come from somewhere.

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