Starting my son on this no paci wave...he cried so hard last night but I didn't give into it !! My…

Starting my son on this no paci wave...he cried so hard last night but I didn't give into it !! My big boy will be 2 in august and I give birth too soooooo when his sister gets here he will not be tryin to take hers and nor will he have his own !! Sooooo last night while he was crying my boyfriend gets in his feelings tryin to force me to give him the paci I repeatedly told him no and to put it back in my hiding spot so jr wouldn't see it and reach for it..my son is crying and moving around tryin hard not to self soothe himself -my bd says how long yu gon let him do all tht before yu give him the paci I said I'm not he will be ok..it's a new transition in his life that he has to go through and get use to..I was so heated tht my bd was tryin to go against me jus so jr could stop crying..he did the exact same thing when I was weaning my son off the bottle and trying to get him use to sleeping in his own bed..I had to let my bd know that he nor his parents sit up wit me night after night with this lil boy or even help me get started with all these transitions..I did it all on my own they always tried to give the things back that I'm trying to stop..HE SHUT UP THEN !! Don't ever question me or force me to do something else wen it comes to my child (even tho it's his too😂🤣)..jr is with me 98% of the time so obviously I know wat im doin and know wats best...I carried and birthed him I WILL ALWAYS HAVE THE TOP ANSWER FOR HIM & WHAT I SAY GOES !! 😏😏😏😏😏