Ok so i think im making the mistake of putting my son before anything. He is 2. Im saying it because my husband has been distant and im aware that we dont go out like we used to mainly because we dont have any babysitters or money. He comes home turns on the tv and completely ignores me. He is always mad. Does his own thing as soon as he wakes up. How can i fix this is there any hope he will change. He was not like this before! He was a great father gave me a hand when i needed it.. i dont know what to do thank you.
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Maybe he was faking before - now the real him comes out! Dude sounds like he can't be bothered
Make small consistent efforts. If he comes home and sits on the couch, sit with him for a little bit. Even if it's a few minutes. Let him talk about himself. Google free family dates and try and do one once a month if possible. A break from the same routine every day does wonders.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
ugh im so pissed off. my boyfriend cares TOO DAMN MUCH! He keeps freaking out on me whenever i eat things like hot fries or anything junk food. its irking me to death like i just wanna eat my food and now im crying because i cant eat it cause i dont want to hear his mouth. all he says now is if something js wrong with the baby he and i will not be together.
Overall whats everyones thoughts on this. Me personally I dont mind lgbt .but to teach it I feel like is a waste . I can teach my own children that if they ask or even wanna know
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Unfortunately i think thats it. Ive given him plenty of space thought he was going thru something but he always blames me. Im the problem aparently because i "nag"