So not only are we moving soon but my son's birthday is soon...I want to go through all his toys & donate/throw out a lot of them but last year when I did this iI was so hesitate thinking he would go looking for something & it not be there....he has so many toys tho (I literally have 2 rooms full of crap!) this is going to be hard on me lol
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a little and decided to take all toys away and tv away for whatever he has left of the day till bed time. Gets it taken for hitting us or throwing toys or kicking... He kicked me right in the mouth last night so he didn't get his toys till after nap and no cartoons and thats around 4pm is this to much??
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
Strippers. How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Kelsey·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I pay attention to what my daughter plays with most and then clear out the rest to make room for new toys. If its out of sight they are out of mind. I just wouldnt let him see you pick out the toys to donate them because then he might want to play with them lol. I have also just put toys in my closet for a month and if she didnt ask about them then i knew it was safe to donate them
Chantel·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kmharr3 yea I'm planning on doing this the next time my mom takes him for the night. He usually just plays with a handful of toys so I'm hoping it won't be difficult to get rid of everything else. The idea to store some toys I'm unsure of is a great idea tho, not sure why I didn't think of that lol
Kelsey·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Yeah and of the toys that my daughter does have we separated them into 3 little storage bins (little people, doll& clothes, cars/trucks) and each day she picks what bin she wants to play with that way at the end of the day there isnt that many toys that need to be picked up
happymoma·
I do the same thing and put them away or up for a month...if she doesn't ask or look for it I get rid of it...then if she panics and wants it i can sneak away and be like oh look what mommy found under the bed!! lol