Another issue im having is my baby father im pregnant by at the moment he is still married and still haven't gotten a divorce in 9 months but asking to marry me but keep prolonging his marriage he already got nd im really pissed i want it gone but he not seeming to do it to start our family what should i do in this case
In most states you have to be separated for a year before the divorce can be finalized by a judge.
How long have you guys been together if you don't mind me asking?
As long as the wife has signed the paper there's no reason for it to be that long to divorce someone
@cooperciera7, I know that's right. Mines has a deadline. 6 months only!!!
Right.. He did half of it but didnt pay or finish the rest of paperwork smh i told him u cant talk to me untill u get that married cut off @vondutch843
@cooperciera7, right. I got the ring and fill out the paperwork for my baby daddy. But I'm still waiting. Just not forever!!!
Yes i keep telling him to go get it done and its like he tells me ok and keep prolonging it but want to get me a ring and talk bout marriage but not even unmarried with this girl @vondutch843
My baby daddy has been married for 14 years, separated for 13. And I'm still waiting too, smh. Here in SC it's just 150.00 and 3-5 months.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Well I. glad the lack of interest in me is because hes watching porn for the third time when he promised me three times he wouldnt. We have had 3 issues where it lead to him cheatinf before! Im glad I can be ugly. I didnt ask to be made fat and given stretch marks but damnit its our child and things happen.. Im still pretty right? am I?.. I didnt purposely try to look the way I do.. Im pregnant.. its how it works.. I thought I was still good enough. Do I still look okay?.. I keep shaking now..
Married Moms: do you still get tested for STDs every couple of months even though you’re married and don’t suspect that your husband is cheating or unfaithful and if so does your husband know about it? I was talking with my friends and they said they do it without telling their husband because it’s not necessary while others said that they don’t because they trust he isn’t being unfaithful. Idk I’m not married yet but this is something I’ve always wondered for people that are married
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So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
@cooperciera7, oh, well damn he need to get on that shit and get that finalized!