It's so sad to see so many friends over my social media be so happy with their S/O, and then right when they have a child together, it seems to go all downhill, and they end up breaking up.. I have seen it way too many times. Yes, having a family is stressful, and it definitely has its ups and downs, and pros and cons also. But I just remember how blessed I am, and where I am today is because of my family. And honestly, my fiance and I's relationship has became stronger it seems like. We just keep on moving up instead of breaking down. It seems like no matter what gets thrown our way, we know we still have each other and our babies at the end of the day. And that's what truly matters. Just it's sad to see so many couples be so happy during the pregnancy, and then not even a month or two after their child is born. They never work out. It's only a very select few I've actually seen a couple last. And then there are others that just go on and off. Get back together, then breakup. Then get back together, and breakup. Literally a broken record. Bottom line, being a family is hard work, having children is even harder. But as long as you are strong, caring, hard working, and all around have alot of love for your man that works to provide for his family, then comes home and loves his S/O and his children, and plays with them. That's really what matters. Trust me, there are moments where I want to smack the shit out of my man, but no relationship is perfect, and nobody is picture perfect either.