@typicalwifegirl, this is true. We haven't felt resentment or discouragement but there has been fluctuation of responsibility and that's enough to make you say "really?" So thanks for that

@jessica0830, wine and online shopping. Makes sense! Haha Thx

Moms to be: don't put the epidural !!

@phase it took me a few years to learn that one 😂 I think there's a lot of negativity between new parents that people just don't always talk about. Everything changing is hard and leaves a lot of room for discouragement and resentment. I think it happens to everyone. Once you power through it and figure out a new "rhythm" for your family, it becomes a lot easier.

When you have more than one online shopping saves gas..... And also your sanity! Kids are jerks sometimes so always keep wine around 😂😂😩

Loving the answers ladies. Keep it coming

@typicalwifegirl, wow right on time. Thank you for that. There's one I haven't heard.

Your husband isn't perfect and neither are you 😮 sometimes it feels like you do way more or he just doesn't contribute, but don't let that discourage you. He most likely feels like he's doing the best he can already. Fighting over parenting is a stress you don't need.

Make sure to have time to yourself and to have a hobby

Don't forget about you.. take care of yourself

put the kids and family first...happiness matters more than a spotless house!

Its okay to not pick up the house!