RANT!!!
My daughters father hardly had anything to do with me or her from the time I was 3 months pregnant on. I stayed with him until she was 4 months old. At the point he was only coming to see her about once a week or once every two weeks. Mind you we were still together Nd he literally lived like 5 miles down the road. Once we broke up until Now (which she is a year old now) he has only seen her once and she didn't even know who he was and screamed any time he held her or anything. (She's not a big people person). Now that I have moved on and got married to my husband and he has stepped up and is raising her, her father suddenly wants to be apart of her life. We have also moved. He is in Georgia and my husband and I moved to Kentucky with my daughter. Part of me wants to tell him to just fuck off and that he can't have anything to do with her and part of me wants her to have her real dad in her life. Ugh!! What do I do?
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@walking_mombie that's my thinking. Like if she is going to grow up thinking my husband is her dad why would I want you coming in every once in a blue moon trying to tell my daughter that you are her dad and not my husband?
@lara_johnson95 to me being in & out does more harm than just being gone.
@lara_johnson95 yep so does mine & it's sad..I don't want him in & out..I told him that but he can't seem to commit to it so I told him to forget it
@walking_mombie my daughter also thinks that my husband is her dad. He has been there everyday since she was 4 months old. And even before that because we have been best friends for the past 7 years. I think I'm just going to tell him to get on. He has 2 other kids as well that he only half ass sees.
I've elected to tell mine bye. He was sorta like your ex.in & out when he lived close & then had nothing to do with him then all of a sudden did..my son thinks my fiancee is his dad. His real dad isn't a good influence..he's unstable,drinks too much & addicted to drugs..he's a teen stuck in a almost 30yr old body.. just trust your gut & do what's best.
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
My midwife wasn't bothered at all that she hasn't moved..She didn't even listen to her heart or anything..She still hasn't really moved today..I don't have a clue what to do now..
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@lara_johnson95 yeah exactly.