RANT!!!
My daughters father hardly had anything to do with me or her from the time I was 3 months pregnant on. I stayed with him until she was 4 months old. At the point he was only coming to see her about once a week or once every two weeks. Mind you we were still together Nd he literally lived like 5 miles down the road. Once we broke up until Now (which she is a year old now) he has only seen her once and she didn't even know who he was and screamed any time he held her or anything. (She's not a big people person). Now that I have moved on and got married to my husband and he has stepped up and is raising her, her father suddenly wants to be apart of her life. We have also moved. He is in Georgia and my husband and I moved to Kentucky with my daughter. Part of me wants to tell him to just fuck off and that he can't have anything to do with her and part of me wants her to have her real dad in her life. Ugh!! What do I do?
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@walking_mombie that's my thinking. Like if she is going to grow up thinking my husband is her dad why would I want you coming in every once in a blue moon trying to tell my daughter that you are her dad and not my husband?
@lara_johnson95 to me being in & out does more harm than just being gone.
@lara_johnson95 yep so does mine & it's sad..I don't want him in & out..I told him that but he can't seem to commit to it so I told him to forget it
@walking_mombie my daughter also thinks that my husband is her dad. He has been there everyday since she was 4 months old. And even before that because we have been best friends for the past 7 years. I think I'm just going to tell him to get on. He has 2 other kids as well that he only half ass sees.
I've elected to tell mine bye. He was sorta like your ex.in & out when he lived close & then had nothing to do with him then all of a sudden did..my son thinks my fiancee is his dad. His real dad isn't a good influence..he's unstable,drinks too much & addicted to drugs..he's a teen stuck in a almost 30yr old body.. just trust your gut & do what's best.
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@lara_johnson95 yeah exactly.