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So my hubby works graveyards and hadls to sleep most of the day. I don't mind that but it bothers me that on his "days"…

So my hubby works graveyards and hadls to sleep most of the day. I don't mind that but it bothers me that on his "days" off he doesn't really help out. We're looking at buying a house, which we desperately need. I know I'll be packing and unpacking by myself. Again I van do that. I just know I'm getting close to my burnout point and I have no chance to just unwind from the day. The kids stay up way late and so I'm up really late and hubby needs cuddle time so I go to bed to cuddle before he goes to work. I can't get up really early because of how late I get to bed. I haven't gone or with friends in months or had good me time in weeks. Any tips on how to get some before I burnout?

Boy do I understand. The thing that helped me the most was putting my LO to bed a little earlier then I normally would let her stay up till. When she was asleep I would shower, pamper myself a tiny bit like paint my nails and put on a TV show on low. The thing I always have to remember is that it is OK to allow myself a little time alone. So even if it is his day off it sort of is your day too. When he wakes up just ask if he can help make lunch or something. Or maybe pack up some of his stuff himself. I know it feels kinda crappy to ask for help on his day off but you are gonna burn out doing it all yourself. I've been to that point and its not fun. Keep your head up mamma ❤

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This is NOT happening !!!!!!! I swear I had given up! But I'm 5 days late and I just got my BFP ???

so I thought with Gary being off work this week I'd get a few lie ins, of course not I don't know why I was so silly to…

so I thought with Gary being off work this week I'd get a few lie ins, of course not I don't know why I was so silly to think it! I've had 1 lie in 😐 I heard him getting into bed at 2:45am so I knew straight away he wouldn't be getting up with Kai 😐 I'm fed up.. he hasn't even helped with housework either not like he usually does anyway, before I went to bed last night all I asked him to do was sort the bottles in the sterilizer and of course that must of been too difficult cause they still there! sorry for the long rant before 8am 😂😂

need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I…

need suggestions.... So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.

So what's a good routine that y'all have done for your newborn babies? A good schedule?? My question also was my fiancee…

So what's a good routine that y'all have done for your newborn babies? A good schedule?? My question also was my fiancee gets off work late, at 8 so if I send her to bed before or earlier he wouldn't be able to spend time with her during the week. Is 10 to late for a newborn. I know it kinda is but the moment my fiancee gets home he can get her ready for bed. And spend that time with her that way. I mean what do y'all do when your hubby works all the time but comes home late. Lol

Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a…

Idk if this is a little to harsh but my stepson is 2 and 7 months now the time outs are not working so I stepped it up a little and decided to take all toys away and tv away for whatever he has left of the day till bed time. Gets it taken for hitting us or throwing toys or kicking... He kicked me right in the mouth last night so he didn't get his toys till after nap and no cartoons and thats around 4pm is this to much??