So, my man and I are doing pretty damn good lately, his only real big issue being my mom. She comes over whenever he's at work 3pm and on to help out with the kids, spend some time with us. She always gets us dinner and plays with my kids and helps with baths so I'm super grateful. But she treats me really bad. She acts like she's the kids mom and just irritated with me. So I vent to him. Well he can't stand her! He wants me to cut her out. He's sick of it. And I know she loves us but my kids act horrible when she's around because she lets them get away with murder. And when I try to step in she just gets pissy with me. Not sure what to do..
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I do the same but I finally got tired and told her is he hungry thirsty or abused no then let me be the mom. Time to stand up for yourself I am the push over type so it took a lot to actually get me to that point but a minute of being angry is better then a life time of someone over stepping your relationship as a mother to your child
@charong, thank you for responding the other day when I was having a hard time.. I was thinking about you today. Hope you're well hun.
Totally understand. I have a terrible relationship with my mom
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Advice please ?
Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of d...
is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know
the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...
@megsandbabes, 😊