So, my man and I are doing pretty damn good lately, his only real big issue being my mom. She comes…

So, my man and I are doing pretty damn good lately, his only real big issue being my mom. She comes over whenever he's at work 3pm and on to help out with the kids, spend some time with us. She always gets us dinner and plays with my kids and helps with baths so I'm super grateful. But she treats me really bad. She acts like she's the kids mom and just irritated with me. So I vent to him. Well he can't stand her! He wants me to cut her out. He's sick of it. And I know she loves us but my kids act horrible when she's around because she lets them get away with murder. And when I try to step in she just gets pissy with me. Not sure what to do..