But thank you I hope so too

@tiredmom yeah exactly like I know I need to make my own and everything I'm grown and have kids but I also dont wanna get kicked out and move with his family I'd go crazy over there

@adrianasmtz1994 oh. I get that. It's hard to build yourself up when you live with them. I hope you guys are able to move out soon and get married.

@tiredmom lol well I'm trying to work on it I really am but it's not as easy since I live with them atm

@adrianasmtz1994 you sound like my sister. She would be deviated if my parents were disappointed in her. She finally got passed it though. I'm glad she did, she's a great person and my parents are horrible.

@tiredmom I've always been insecure and always have been in what everybody wants so I won't be arguing with anybody which I really need to work on I hate it. It's messed up my relationship with him because I don't want my parents to just ignore me or not help me out because of my choices

@adrianasmtz1994 if he makes you happy why care if they judge you?

@tiredmom oh okay lucky you both of our parents are involved it's not pretty😔. Yeah we want a house also we both think it's a waste of money in an apartment since it will never be yours you know. We wanna do the court one first but I don't want my family to judge me for even marrying him after all he put me through

@adrianasmtz1994 neither one of us have much family that we're involved with. Long story. But if it's what the both of you want it'll happen eventually. Right now you at least have a common law marriage. My biggest goal is buying a house for us. When ever we get around to getting married it'll just be a court house thing.

@tiredmom well that's good. It does to me but because his parents are always asking when are we getting married and having our own place

@adrianasmtz1994 yeah that's why it doesn't bother me.

@tiredmom wow thats amazing. You don't find many like that

@napmommyoftwo thank you🙂 same for you

Going on 5yrs. Not married yet. We keep saying we will get around to it but never do. It doesn't bother me because we've been together for so long, my son calls him dad, we have a kid together. And for the month that we spilt up he still took care of my son and talked to him daily.

@adrianasmtz1994, anytime!! Message me if you ever need to talk

@napmommyoftwo yeah but thanks for talking to me ☺ I hardly talk to mom's considering I don't know many

@adrianasmtz1994, ohhhh I hear you on that girl

@napmommyoftwo I hope so I just want things to be better I'm tired of drama and everything

@adrianasmtz1994, ya girl I've been there! Believe me it takes time but in the end it's worth it and it'll all fall into place

@napmommyoftwo plus he just started working we are trying to get our own place I'm tired of living with my parents

@napmommyoftwo lol wow well we have 3 kids I'm done having kids I had them too close in age. He calls me his wife already and I always say nope i don't have the ring yet

@adrianasmtz1994, you'll get past them and I'm sure you'll get married soon my hubby got super comfortable after we had our son and wasn't in rush until it just finally snapped in him he didn't wanna keep calling me his fiancé 😂😂 it'll happen mama! Don't stress about it

@catherinee08 I hope so.

@napmommyoftwo wow really I'm going on 4 years. Yes we have but we haven't gotten there since there are problems right now

It's okey girl, it'll happen one day

@adrianasmtz1994, 6 years into my relationship we finally decided to get married have y'all talked about marriage?